dildo too big?

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    My girlfriend and I spoke about using a dildo one night and the idea of it turned us on. I have had a fantasy of her using a dildo larger than myself and watching her being stretched then having an intense orgasm. She is happy with the idea and says im happy to go with whatever you want as long as it isn't crazy! So what im wondering is : will a 10inch by 2.2inch size dildo be too much for her to take considering i'm 7inches by 1.7 girth? Also i dont want to hurt her and am aware that something bigger will require a good bit of lube and foreplay.
     
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    As long as you take it carefully in the start and she knows she can say stop if it IS to big, I don't see why you can't try =p. Big toys are good fun, or so I think personally anyway.
     
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    Should be no problem hurting her, if it's her using the big dildo on herself, she'll simply stop if it's uncomfortable....and a dildo that's 2.2 inches wide, has a girth of almost 7 inches....and that's a whole bunch a girth.......more than most any man on the planet...with that kind of gir.......ooooooohhhhh....I almost did it! .....you see, 'round here you can't say the " G" word 3 times in the same post because cbrmale is kinda like beatlejuice ......if he hears the word "girth" three times , he pops out and scares us all with his cock that's big enough around to wear a wristwatch on.....................oh shit, was that 3 ? Iiiiiiiits show time!!

    just kidding buddy, you know what I say......if you got it...flaunt it!!

    Back on topic....10" x 7" is huuuuuge.....might wanna work up to it?
     
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    Thanks Silkycat, I have said if it too much I will stop. My girlfriend is also quite liking the idea of a big dildo now, the idea of being stretched put her off only slightly but now I think she is looking forward to the experience and has said to me its my choice on the dildo size.

    12barblues : Thanks for the input, we did talk about working up to it, but she has decided to just go for it when the time comes. She says as long as i'm patient enough and she is wet and excited enough it'll be fine :)
     
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    You gotta love that kinda resolve in a woman.....:D
     
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    :D

    Silkycat : I have narrowed my choice down to a 2" and a 2.2" girth dildo. You said "big toys are good fun" but my question is if we were to try the 2.2" could it be possible for my girlfriend not to be able to take it? I ask as I have read reviews of the dildo and this situation was mentioned a few times. Should I really start her of with the 2"

    If it helps my girlfriend is 19, 5"5 and a size 4, she weighs just under 8 stone so is pretty petite. Thanks.
     
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    Girth is the outside circumference, not the diameter. For example my penis is oval so it's wider than a circle. Going back to my hazy arithmetic a 2" diameter is about a 6 point something inch girth (2 pi r) and 2.2" is a bit bigger. I am 6.5" girth but that is oblong (more than 2.5" wide) so your girlfriend will have no problems with either dildo size. Woman physical size has no relationship to vaginal size, but even if it did the bigger of the two dildoes will present no problem at all.
     
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    It really does depend on how stretchy she is, that varies a lot from person to person =p. I'd say dont go for an horribly expensive one, just try for size first and see if you need bigger or smaller!
     
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    My wife had one 6.5 around and 7 long. It very seldom got used so she threw it away. Her new favorite is 5.5 x 7. I'm a little under 8 and am 6 around and that is just right naturally
     
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    Ok so after reading your replies and both of us talking about I have decided on a dildo, the jeff stryker Jeff Stryker cock UR3 - Realistic dildos as the previous one I had in mind contained Phthalates, which I read can be harmful to the body?

    Also if anyone had ever used the jeff stryker, as a woman how did you find it?
     
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    Waiting for the video .....:D
    Love watching a woman dance upon that fine line between pleasure and pain....as they struggle to take just a little more than they should. Yeah, I'm just a little demented.....
     
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    Ok so after all this discussion and after yet another chat with the girlfriend. I have decided on the Shane Diesel dildo. Now just have to wait for it to arrive and then surprise the girlfriend with it one night :) She says she doesn't want to see it until she has managed to take it, so she doesn't get put off! I hope this 10" x 2.25" will give her a good experience in the end and have to admit, will be very turned on to see her take it if she can :)
     
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    My husband started me on small realistic dildos about his size. He worked me up to one called the Natural and one named after a porn star Kevin Dean. He would have me cum once then suck his cock and while I was doing this he would get the Kevin Dean out and make me cum again. By "make" I mean he said if this was a real cock the man would be much more powerful than me and I'd be forced to fuck it so relax. He knew I would cum again. Then he makes me masterbate with the both of them again and the entire time we are on webcamnow.
     
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    I think that's about the biggest "real" dildo you're gonna find....never seen a guy in porn any bigger than that.....
     
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    If that size is to big and you want a laugh (if this is your sense of humor) bring it back to the shop and tell them it didn't fit.
     
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    I never had a dildo in me until I met my husband. He surprised me actually with one in the middle of making love. I came and oh my God did I . After that he had me to suck him, made love a little more telling me how good I flt after the dildo then had me to suck him until he came in my mouth all the while using the dildo on me a second time where he actually made me masturbate at first but when I tried to quit he took control telling me if I was really being forced I couldn't make a man stop.
     
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    Your profile states you are male and straight?
    If you are a wife using this profile, please create your own. We have "couples" profiles but seeing as this one is just for the male in the relationship, you have to make your own. It's too confusing when posting if you don't.
     
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    I think to most women the girth is the key, something noticeably larger than what they're use to. I know it did the trick with my wife, she took about 5 inches of a almost 7inch circumference dildo and had an orgasm very quickly. Incredible was the word she used to describe.
     
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    She should be fine, don't forget the foreplay, thats the fun part.
     
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