Differences between Men and Women

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  1. shunts

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    What do you think of this description that I thinks summarizes the difference succinctly: Lets say you were at a health club, and were a man. If a hot women came up to you and whisperred to you , "when I go home, I am going to fantasize about what you look like naked while I masturbate". I think most men would be flattered, aroused, and excited. If the same thing happened in reverse, most women would be horrified, and think the man was a pervert and a creep.
     
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    I would be flattered as well in that situation. Takes a lot to make me think someone is a pervert
     
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    I feel the same way. "Was it good?" "Glad I could help ya out" ;)
     
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    Hmm, I dunno. It all depends, for both sexes, on the situation. I mean if it was randomly, I'd be kinda weirded out. And I would never say that to someone. But if it was someone I was flirting with, I might take it as a compliment. I still wouldn't ever say it. At least not in person.
     
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    Guess I'm weird, cuz I'd just look at her and smile, and continue on my day.

    Would I think about her again??? Of course, but I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of thinking she has some sort of mystical power over me.
     
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    While females typically show outward disgust to such things as advances, pornography, etc... it's been scientifically proven that mentally they're stimulated whether sexually or the feeling of being flattered.
     
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    Men will be men
    Women will be women women.

    Dont say that you'll like it! Im ganna catch a attemted rape charge the next time I see a hot girl in public.
     
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    Too funny! Haha. :) I think you'll be able to tell which girl you could say it to. But def. Not some random chick. Gotta atleast talk to her a lil.
     
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    But yeah, usually I ignore girls. Over the weekend, I went to a discotec bar. A girl asked me my name, and I ignored her. I'm not badass or a jerk, but I am very selective in who I talk to.
     
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    How come?
     
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    I'm thinking about the same thing :)
     
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    Is it only flattering if you find the guy attractive as well?
     
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    My wife wasn't around when that scientific study was done.:)
     
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    You must not make such sweeping statements without evidence such as providing a link or quote reference to the specific scientific publications :eyes
     
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    I would most probably find it attractive him saying that because that means he has balls.
     
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    I think it's classless. The thing that makes sex really beautiful is a couple relating to one another in an intimate way - one that can be truly life-forming. Fantasizing about a girl you don't know and masturbating isn't about loving, or relating, it's about lust and relief, an entirely different (and far more self-centered) approach.