Difference between making love & fucking??

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by bubblepop, Feb 18, 2007.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. bubblepop

    bubblepop New Member

    Messages:
    24
    Likes Received:
    0
    What is the actual difference between fucking and making love i know the baiscs that making love involves more passion, slow, and everything? but whats the full difference?

    Which one is more pleasurable and involves more foreplay?
  2. doberman

    doberman New Member

    Messages:
    461
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    switzerland
    is that a question for real?

    i'd say "fucking" is rather the technical description, as is "foreplay" as its what comes before fucking.. "afterplay" you would refer to what is after fucking, but can also mean something completly different. at least in the county i live in..

    for love making, i'd go for the experience of said above, involving emotional attachment with your loved one.. you dont make love to prostitute probably..

  3. edastro4life

    edastro4life New Member

    Messages:
    14
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    It depend on your point of view to me "Making Love" is having sex with slow music, being as intimate as possible, feeling a Women giving you her soul.
    Making sure every touch gives her pleasure. "Fucking" is getting in and out,
    just getting a nut porno style and humping away like a hot dick dog.
  4. bighiker2003

    bighiker2003 Banned

    Messages:
    3,754
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Northern Indiana

    Making love, Can be anything, A kiss, a hug
    petting in front of a warm fireplace.
    Sitting in a car holding hands by a beautiful lake watching
    raindrops hit the window while feeling good about the
    one you are with and letting Her know
    how you feel. That and a million other things
    you do on a daily basis just to show that you "LOVE" Her
    Having Sex can be a big part of that love making but it is
    not necessary, Sex can also be done with no love, And I'm
    sure that a lot of people are guilty of that.

    Hiker:sf
  5. toffeegirl

    toffeegirl New Member

    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    leeds
    making love or fucking depends on how you feel. sometimes i make love to my husband. because im desperate to. sometimes i fuck his brains out for the same reason.
  6. jódame

    jódame New Member

    Messages:
    59
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    PA
    Exactly what toffeegirl said: it's about your frame of mind. I have made love to my boy, I've had sex with him, and I've fucked him. The way I see it, you can fuck someone you love, but you have to have some attachment to someone to make love to them.
  7. toffeegirl

    toffeegirl New Member

    Messages:
    5
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    leeds
    yeah you have to be attached to make love
  8. edastro4life

    edastro4life New Member

    Messages:
    14
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Once you stick it in, isn't that being attached?:dgrin



    Just couldn't help myself you walked into that one(lol)
  9. Dreama

    Dreama Gold Member

    Messages:
    3,890
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Female
    I think that an emotional relationship must exist, but in my opinion, as long as you love someone, it doesn't matter how you have sex. You're always making love, if you love the person who is having sex with you. That's just what I think, though.
  10. LimeLight

    LimeLight New Member

    Messages:
    212
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    If it's sweet and romatic it's making love. If it's dirty then it's fucking.
  11. Shy Girl

    Shy Girl New Member

    Messages:
    230
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    WA
    To me, fucking is having sex just to pleasure yourself, making love is having sex for more emotional reasons
  12. Puss_in_boots

    Puss_in_boots Adminatrix Gold Member

    Messages:
    6,443
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Female
    A hundred years ago, "making love" used to not have any sexual connotations at all. It used to mean "courting," spending time together, saying passionate loving things to one another, etc. Of course now it is perhaps the sweetest way of referring to having sex (fucking).

    They are really one and the same thing.

    I think it was Eddie Murphy who one said, "Alright! So I did fuck her!!...but I make love to you, baby." :lol
  13. oldkinky

    oldkinky Active Member

    Messages:
    340
    Likes Received:
    43
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Southern US
    My wife and I always have wild kinky sex(mutual masturbation, oral, toys, watching DVD'S, prostate massage, fantasizing and dirty talk). We both call that fucking-giving each other hot pleasure. We take care of loving at other times and in other ways, but we both love to fuck.
  14. SexyScorp

    SexyScorp Gold Member

    Messages:
    2,778
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    ireland
    I think there can be a huge difference....

    If I know a man well and care for him a lot I love the fuck thing....fuck fuck fuck lol....

    I am quite male in the way I have sex...hard and fast and very passionate....i like to dominate at times...

    Funnily enough I seem to attract lovers who are very gentle...they would be more into the lovemaking vibe...

    However in my non sexual life I am very loving, soft and tactile.....I am the lovewoman :)
  15. JuicyB

    JuicyB New Member

    Messages:
    832
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    The Southern Cone
    Guys like me want the girl to be an angel in public and a devil in bed! And in sex, I'd say LOVE, real unselfish LOVE where you delight to make you partner have fun, that is the ultimate aphrodisiac!
  16. sext9

    sext9 New Member

    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    When I am being fucked, I know it because the guy isn't doing anything romantic, he's just pounding away for mutual pleasure.
  17. yorkiesmurf

    yorkiesmurf New Member

    Messages:
    450
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    United Kingdom
    I think people tend to get too hung up on terminology and at the end of the day it is the same act with the same result. However if you use it wrongly it could mean the end of the relationship or allot of silly arguments over the application of a word. In any event I will give you my perspective on how the two are different. Making love is a term I rarely use because of the imagery it implies. First there is no universal definition of love or how to 'make it'. If you do not know what it is composed of then how do you make it? It is almost like a baker knowing what bread looks like, knowing a few of the ingredients that are needed, but cannot find agreement amongst their peers to know how to arrive at the finished product. Personally I do not feel making love involves anymore passion or intimacy than fucking. Though I would say making love involves more of a long-term process of communication and relationship build. Essentially it is the glue that binds a relationship together for the long haul. Whereas fucking on the other hand can be passionate, intense, and arousing. However it lacks the emotional component that brings two people together and keeps them together. It is possible for two people in a long-term committed relationship to have opportunities where they fuck. These types of opportunities tend to come out of exploration that creates an intense experience but the experience cannot be sustained for a long period of time. Instead the experience serves as a foundation for something more that brings them closer together.
  18. Dvusdouglas

    Dvusdouglas New Member

    Messages:
    174
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Quad cities
    I see 3 different versions.......making love......having sex......fucking


    Fucking ....is animalist desire, wanton need, lust,the inherent desire to "get your rocks off"

    Having sex ...is just that.....sex...the act of....no emotion...just "doing the deed"
    Example....mom amd dad had sex every sunday night...whether they wanted to or not, it was a habit

    Making love....deep seated emotions, something pulling at the heartstrings you can't explain. Doing this you open your heart and soul to your lover.

    that's how I see it
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.