This happened several years ago, but I've always wondered about it. A friend I've known for a couple of years invites me to her house. We were good friends, and a couple of times a week she was a "phone sex buddy," but it was always on a friendship level. When we'd hang out, it never involved sex. We just talked and had a good time doing whatever. Anyway, when I get to her place this particular time, she's wearing a tank top, no bra, and skimpy boxer shorts. Nothing else. The first thing she asks me is, "Can you see through these shorts?" I lie through my teeth and say, "Nope." The rest of the afternoon is spent with us just doing normal stuff. At the time I didn't think much of it, but after I got home I thought about it quite a bit. For whatever reason, I just could never ask her about it. I just wondered to myself about it. So, did I do the right thing, or did I blow it? Did she get in a temporary mood for a little fun, or could it have been a mistake on my part to see if that's where her head was at? I'm just curious what take others have on it.