[Ask a Girl] Desire to have children

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by pbs, Dec 31, 2011.

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A woman's desire to have children

  1. Yes, definately want children

    8 vote(s)
    61.5%
  2. Could have them or not, but would do so for my spouse

    1 vote(s)
    7.7%
  3. Don't want to have children

    4 vote(s)
    30.8%
  1. pbs

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    I asked this of guys, and it came out about 50/50 for those who want and those who don't want to have children. I would like to ask the women on the forum about their desire to have children. If you already have them and are glad or not, vote accordingly please.
     
  2. Meow181

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    My 3 r adults now. I wouldn't change I thing. I'd do it all again in a heartbeat. I would of loved to of had more. There's nothing like the love u experience at the first sight of yr baby. There's no love like it and only parents will know wot I mean. It's a instant bond. When my daughter is having a bad run I tell her "the moment u were born n our eyes met my world stood still as I fell in love with you " and it was exactly the same with my sons. Three of the most magical moments in my life. ;)
     
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    I would love to have children, providing the right guy came along. Buy I don't hang around with the best crowd for children, and I am certainly not a good person to look up to.
     
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    AHB, you will make a beautiful mother no matter the sperm donor.
     
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    I never had the desire to have children. I thought some kind of longing or maternal instinct would kick in but didn't. I'm happy with my life and 2 dogs:).
     
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    Someday, the idea of having genetic offspring both fascinates me and terrifies me. I don't want them to have the same issues i did growing up and still now, don't want them to be like me if it is indeed genetic.
     
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    Nah, not for me, I love sex too much to have anything or anyone get in the way of it!
     
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    Thats exaxtly how I feel. I know what NOT to do to my kid, I have perfect examples for that, but only up to the point of where the are about 7. Then I am absolutly cluless.
     
  9. 1hotmamma420

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    Meow said it the best.
    I have 3 right now and I wouldn't change a thing about having them or starting young (just 20.) It's amazing to see yourself in your kids.
     
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    Not for me. As a matter of fact, I just had the tubes tied. I love my god children, and my friends kids. They are beautiful and special. I just never felt the need to make my own little wonders.