So, I just had heart to heart with my husband tonight and it seems as if he's deprived in his past sexual escapades. Now don't get me wrong, i like the occasional fuck session, but i'm more of a sensual lover. I love the connection between he and I. I love to look into his eyes and see the 'need', i know that the way he touches me tells me he'd rather be nowhere else. I know that in those very moments, he needs to taste my nectar or else won't be right in the world. everything unspoken is felt.....Now maybe its just me and i'm old school, but in his other relationships, he says he's never had someone that cared enough or cared to receive that type of emotion from him, he was just a hard dick and a strong body.... this saddens me a bit....its like, you're just fucking; a means to an end. if all you want from sex is to cum, you should just masturbate.....while there are some casual sex-ers out there, i'm not that person and neither is he....but these were 'relationships'...what are you doing if theres no connection involved?