I am 33 yr guy who has been married for 1.5 yrs. Over the last couple of months I have been having problems ejaculating. Obtaining an erection is no problem, foreplay is great, sex occurs but I just can't finish. I am athletic and am in very good shape, my wife is very attractive and pretty good in bed. It is geting to where I am embarressed about this and my wife is less interested in sex because she worries too much about me finishing. Dunno what to do... One last thing, i really like my anus stimulated (not a requirement) but she not into it - she likes hers played with and she enjoys anal sex but is a homophobic. Between not finishing and liking my anus stimulated - i think she may be a bit unhappy. Need some help!