Define: "Creepy"

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  1. 10_3XL

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    You see the word thrown around a lot - especially pertaining to sexual matters.
    "Oh, he's into _____. It's creepy."
    "She does what?! That's creepy!"
    It's one of my deepest darkest fears to be viewed as creepy - the connotations for me create the image of a paedophilic Gollum, lurking about in the shadows waiting for his next prey. :eek:

    So, as the title implies, how do you define "creepy?" This is also, of course, with an emphasis on relationship/sexual matters - but a general definition works as well, I suppose.
     
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    Hard to define but an example would be the guys *( and there have been several for some damn reason) that are arrested for masturbation in a store parking lot.
     
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    I think in my mind it boils down to the following few things:

    • People who 'prey' upon vulnerable people.
    • People who force others to see or experience things they didn't consent to.
    • People who look at others as if they're objects and not people.
    • People whose actions or interests are far outside of the accepted societal norm. (Or in this specific case, the victim of the creeper's accepted norms..)
    • People with obsessive tendencies.
    • Stalking.
    I'm sure others will come to mind, but I think that's a decent starting point.
     
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    All the things that peek my interest or that I consider "normal" are defined as creepy so I really don't care if I'm the creepiest weirdest outcast that lives. I'm just me yo.
     
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    Right here. 100%. No further explanation needed. Nicely done RU. :)
     
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    And I'd like to add, old guys in Speedos or knee socks and sandels. 60 yr old women that dress like they are in high school, and anyone driving a Pontiac Aztek.
     
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    Aztek's are creepy as fuck.
     
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    All of which are outside my accepted norm.
     
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    Nothing of what you have shown or told us seems remotely creepy to me :)
    Ra1nnowunderwear defined it best and on that basis you do not qualify for that description.
     
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    A woman told me once I creeped her out so I immediately ceased giving her any attention whatsoever but later she asked me why I was no longer attracted to her.
    She was nothing but a cock teaser anyway so; "go figure bitch", was my response!
     
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    Anyone who makes me uncomfortable is creepy in my book
     
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    I thought it was hilarious.
     
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    Having been followed three times and cyber stalked once, I consider anyone engaging in these behaviors to be creepy. That is what first came to mine.

    Paedophilic Gollum....that made me laugh. Oh my gosh that is reminding me of how hot Viggo Mortensen was in the trilogy.
     
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    And that singing voice! WHY DIDN'T HE SING MORE IN THOSE MOVIES?!
     
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    Kissing your wife's tits for another girl.
     
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    Yeah, that'd definitely be a bit of a weird request to receive or action to take (out of the context of a MFF or something).
     
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    People exposing themselves to others who aren't interested in the least. Even more creepy is people who have a serious problem taking 'no' for an answer.

    Having said that, some people are creeped out by the weirdest situations, to the degree that you just can't listen to everyone (unless you want to end up lonely and secluded). There was one woman who posted a video telling about how she found it creepy when a guy in an elevator asked her over for a cup of coffee. Richard Dawkins happened to see this, and responded with an ironic letter, resulting in a ton of shit being thrown back and forth.
     
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    Whoah whoaw whoa.....let's not get crazy here
     
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