The other day while my wife and I was playing around I got pretty excited and told her how very, very badly I wish I could have intercourse with her. (I've explained this all before in previous posts and I won't keep beating a dead horse. Let's just say I can't and let it go at that.) Anyway, she knows how very hard I am trying to remedy the situation and she told me I probably wouldn't like it as much as I thought I would. I asked why and she told me that some of her past partners thought she was "too loose" or "not tight enough" for them to get off. Which really surprised me! I can get one finger in, and after playing with her quite a bit and getting her really wet and relaxed after a couple of orgasms or two, but three is so full I can hardly move them. And my hands are average at best, definitely not big. Which makes me believe her other partners had really small penises, or had problems reaching climax and giving her a guilt trip or just simply blaming her for their inabilities. So, what exactly is the definition of "tight?" For a woman in her mid-50's, I think she is. I would have loved knowing her in my 30's when I could still do it!