deepthroat tips

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  1. pisschrist

    pisschrist New Member

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    does neone have ne tips on how to learn how to deepthroat... my g/f and i want her to learn how to do it so we can have even more fun while having foreplay!!
    ne help or tips would be helpful :)
    cheers
     
  2. ramtuf49

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    One technique is to have her lay on her back on the bed with her head hanging off the side. You stand in front of her and let her suck you. With her head tilted back in this position it makes for a more straight throat so there is less resistance. I learned this from a girl I used to date. Thats howe she started and she could take 7 1/2" like that. She said the gag reflex was much lees in this position to. After a while she got so she could deepthroat in just about any position she wanted.
     
  3. pisschrist

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    cheers m8.. has neone else got ne ideas for the easier way to learn to deepthroat??
     
  4. wholetmydawgout

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    Is deepthroat even part of foreplay??
     
  5. pisschrist

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    yea man.. tis just a diferent kind of blowjob.. and usually if u get some head before having sex its foreplay... well i see it as that :p
     
  6. Sir Rasor

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    I found this on a page:

    How to Deepthroat

    Special thanks to Fantasy Eyes for this excellent guide to deepthroating

    Want your girl to deepthroat your cock? why not email this story to her?

    ----- How To Deepthroat Guide Below ------

    Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on how to deep throat a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps line up your throat with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position for beginners is with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach along side.
    You can prop yourself up on your elbows.

    The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat if it is well lubricated. Once you're in position, slightly tilt your head back and extend the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue just as you would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat. (Extending your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat open as you would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don't 'relax' your throat muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down and your throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for the penis to enter).

    Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into your mouth and along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the penis there as long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as you can. Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until you can take the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.

    One thing to remember is when you get to the point where the head actually enters the throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to give a little extra 'push' to get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the penis in deeper. When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a moment, then, without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a little further, then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with it.

    You contact lens wearers will no doubt remember the difficulty you had overcoming the involuntary urge to blink the first few times you tried to put in your lenses, but with practice and patience it became very easy to do. The same applies to deep throating! Be patient and practice the technique as often as possible.

    After you've learned to take in the entire length, you can begin working on some 'advanced techniques' that will add even more pleasure. Some of these techniques are letting you partner ejaculate with the entire length of his penis in your throat. If you don't like the taste of cum, this is a great technique because the head of his penis will be well past the taste buds on the back of you tongue when he ejaculates.

    You'll also be able to perform a "throat massage" on his penis while it's in your throat. This technique will drive your partner wild with passion as your throat muscles massage his penis. This is accomplished by actually making a swallowing motion while the entire length if his penis is deep in your throat. You'll also be able to lick his balls while he's in your throat.

    If you've never been deep throated, you're probably wondering what it really feels like. Most men report that they feel a "pleasurable ring of tightness" around the circumference of the penis just below the head with the most pleasurable sensation focused on the underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft.

    Remember: lubrication, extend tongue, flatten back of tongue, force throat muscles open, go slow and be patient! While learning deep throat, it's better that the giver maintain the "superior" position, i.e. where the giver controls the depth and frequency of penetration. After you've become very comfortable with taking a penis deep in your throat, you'll be able to accept a more passive roll and let your partner control the depth. An excellent position for this is you lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge of the bed. Your partner will be able to put his penis in as deeply as he wishes in this position. This position provides an excellent view of your neck and throat for your partner. On of the most exciting visual aspects of deep throat is your partner can watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as the penis slides in deep.

    While learning to perform deep throat, it's best of you are fully relaxed before starting. Take a nice, long, hot, bath. Listen to some soft music. Drink a glass of wine. Have you partner give you a long sensual body massage .... or do whatever relaxes you the best. The more relaxed you are when you begin, the easier it will be to learn the deep throat technique.

    As related earlier, lubrication is extremely important. Saliva will do, but there are other lubricants you can buy that are slicker and will last longer. The best I've found is, believe it or not, Albolene, a makeup remover! It's completely odorless and tasteless and in non toxic. It has been used in the adult film industry for years as a sexual lubricant. It can be purchased at any large drugstore. Another trick the adult film stars who perform deep throat use is spraying a topical anesthetic on the back of the tongue and throat to deaden it. The most commonly used is Lidocaine spray. Lidocaine is available by prescription only! Lidocaine is what a physician uses to deaden the tongue and throat when they use an endoscope to look in to your stomach. Lidocaine is also prescribed for people with very sore throats and those with canker sores in the mouth. An over the counter equivalent is Axon, a type of aerosol sore throat spray. I hope this information is helpful.
     
  7. barbie

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    wow,that is an awful lot to go through,just to give a really good bj which is my specialty.
     
  8. tsukassa

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    i like to masturbate and almost reach a climax and stop and repeat a few times it makes it feel so much better. as for a bj sadly havent had one yet.
     
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    I don't know why

    This gets such a big reaction from guys....but I can tell you that if you learn to do it and do it well, guys will do anything to get some from ya...
    Just from my experience

    KYB!!!
    :D
     
  10. Logger

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    Albolene Makeup Remover

    Albolene comes in a jar. I used it tonight on my wife. My wife's clitoris is sensitive, and gets irritated if I massage her pussy, without lubrication. If I use Vaseline or baby oil, then I don't like the taste of the oil, and uisually avoid going down on her after applying lube.

    Using Albolene to get my wife started by massaging her pussy, then I can go down on her a while later. Usually, I use baby oil to lube my skin of my cock for masturbating. Using Albolene for my cock, I can masturbate a little, and slip my cock in her mouth. Albolene opens up unlimited sequences of oral and hand stimulation. A cleanser plus a lubricant plus non-toxic, tasteless, and edible to any extent necessary.

    Albolene is not the most slippery lube, but it does the job sufficiently, and leaves open all sequences of oral involvement.
     
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    its really practice. just tell ya gf to go deeper like each time she goes down on you my gf couldnt deepthroat b4 and now she can deepthroat me and it feels really good and im loving it! :D
     
  12. Logger

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    Getting Deeper:

    Apply some Albolene or spit on the tip. Put the tip in the middle of your mouth, keep your teeth apart, and push with your tounge on the side of the rod. Take a deep breath, fill your lungs, and start moving your head down, so the tip is starting to press the back of your throat. As you feel the tip contact the back of your throat, try to push your breath against the tip. This will reduce the reflex to gag. As you get the tip deeper, you can move your head up and down, and have your throat serve as a vagina, caressing the tip and rod from all sides, with your throat. As you get comfortable with the tip moving in your throat, you can push less with your breath.

    As a man ejaculates and climaxes, the tip often becomes more sensitive. You might want to get your man to give you some feedback with how much motion feels good, while he ejaculates. You may wish to put his hand on the back of your head, so you can feel his hand pressure, and get feedback from him as to when he might want you to stop moving while he climaxes. You migh want to work out verbal cues for clear communication for "Slow down" or "Keep Going", of "Hold still for the moment."

    Sometimes after climax. I like to pump out the rest of my juice. You may wish to help your man clear his tube after climax. Sucking or pumping or squeezing. Avoid getting your man's come juice in your eyes, as there is theoretically a chance of an eye infection. But you really have to rub in a large quantiy of sperm in your eyes to get an eye infection.

    Blessings
     
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    I've never tried to deep throat but Ima use your guy's tips and I'll get back to you.
     
  14. Logger

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    More Details to Avoid Gagging:

    Apply some Albolene or spit on the tip. Put the tip in the middle of your mouth, keep your teeth apart, and push with your tounge on the side of the rod. Take a deep breath, fill your lungs. Hold your breath, by pushing your breath against your throat. Close off the air passage to your nose, by tightening your throat muscles. Start moving your head down, so the tip is starting to press the back of your throat. Push your breath harder against your throat by compressing your chest muscles, trying to force your breath against your throat. As you feel the tip contact the back of your throat, try to push your breath against your throat near the tip, squeezing your chest and stomach muscles, to compress your lungs. This will reduce the reflex to gag. As you get the tip deeper, you can move your head up and down, and have your throat serve as a vagina, caressing the tip and rod from all sides, with your throat. As you get comfortable with the tip moving in your throat, you can push less with your breath. Perhaps you can get your throat muscles to relax sufficiently to get faster motion going.

    Blessings
     
  15. fantasien

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    As i have fund out, try also with your mouth closed and your lips around the penis stick out your tongue. Though only after you have had practice and your throat is relaxed and open. Another tip for you.
     
  16. zulie

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    My problem is the guys I date are hung (prerequisite). I mean *really* hung. When I go down deep on them my teeth are scraping thier penis. And my mouth is open so wide it feels like my jaws are going to dislocate. I'm serious -- they've got really FAT and LONG penises, both of them. I guess they don't mind the teeth though... they both really love it when I go down on them... but I still worry that I'll hurt em. Its not physically possible to open my mouth so far that my teeth won't scrape -- they're too big. And believe me, I have a BIG mouth.
     
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    mouth guards babe for the love of god not teeth!!!!
     
  18. LuvTaGiveBJs

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    This absolutely works! I have done this so many times, and have taken 9 inches down without a problem. My husband loves this technique - it's sexy becuase he gets to screw your face, and his cute balls sit up on your nose when you do it right! Ahh - and he can play with your tits while he's doing your mouth. Sometimes I will use a free hand to stuff a dildo up my puss or butt. A good time for all :) :D :drool
     
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    I've been able to do it for a while now, and for the guys I've done it with this is the best part. When I try to swallow his penis, the guy just 'explodes'!! Breathing is important too. Remember girls, his dick is going to be in there for several minutes and you'll need to be able to breathe.

    Heres a link on breathing;

    Code:
    http://goyk.com/video.asp?path=1345
    just copy and paste it into your browser address line.
     
  20. LuvTaGiveBJs

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    Yes - breathing is important! I will work him in and out - but swallowing when he's all the way down your throat really drives them wild. I love the feeling of his cum squiriting right down my throat - it is great - guys really can't take this for long hehe - you can make him cum whenever you want. You have to be in control tho so you can take a breath when you need to. Once I figured out deep throating, there isn;t a guy who doesn't just want more and more. My hubby loves it.