deep throat

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  1. Team Arctic

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    When my girlfriend tries to go down all the way on me, she cant quite go all the way, and sometimes it hurts me.. Is that because she cant get it all??
     
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    It's hard for me to relate, being a woman and all, but is the discomfort a result of how/where she's stimulating your penis? Is she forcing it against the roof of her mouth, or somehow raking it with her teeth?
    Or is the uncomfortable feeling a sensation within your cock?

    Sorry to be so precocious, just curious. :)
     
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    Does it hurt Her, You didn't say how big you are. That could be a factor.
    Why does it hurt you, It definitely should feel good to you. Is it too tight.
    Does She rake her teeth over it as NK asked.
    And last, Does She know how.

    Hiker
     
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    We've discussed this subject many, many, many times, so you may want to use the search function as well. Here's my standard response:

    Just a few things to keep in mind... Not everyone can, or will be able to, deep throat. In fact, very few people in the general population are able to train themselves to do so. The intensity of the gag reflex varies from individual to individual, so those who don't have a particularly strong one are apt to say, "Oh, yeah, sure, it can be done with some training", taking for granted the fact that not everyone is born with the exact same throat structure. In fact, DTing is sometimes faked in porn.

    If she really wants to try it, there are a few things she needs to do. Head hanging off the bed is the easiest position, but she has to be the one to control movement or else you're going to choke her--she calls the shots. A spritz of numbing throat spray (if you can get your hands on lidocaine, all the better) beforehand can help, too. If she doesn't want to try it in that position, she should still tilt her head back at a slight angle, and then open the mouth wide, as if yawning, keeping the back of the tongue pressed as flat as possible (as if a doctor was inspecting your throat), and stick the tongue out a slight bit past the lips. She should take you in very slowly until she feels the gag reflex activated, then stop and wait for it to pass, then either try it over again or continue taking you in at whatever pace is workable for her. Odds are you aren't going to get very far the first time you try it, or the second, or third...She may very well be able to take you in a little deeper with time and practice, but you're going to have to accept that it may never happen. As I've said, gag reflex varies from person to person and she may be incapable of having a penis penetrate her throat.
     
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    Just a little added tip.
    Have her Swallow the same as She does when taking
    a pill that she doesnt like.

    Hiker
     
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    Thanks guys/girls!! I think its more she doesnt quite know how, its like it hits the roof of her mouth... Ill tell her to try the swallowing the pill idea!!
     
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    The other thing is , have you tried to deep throut something of simular size....it always sounds real easy to guys untill they try .


    It is an artform...



    Not having a go just trying to show you from the other side of the coin so to speak :p
     
  8. Bluesy

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    Reality checks are always good :) Tomorrow's assigment for all male members of :sf: Go out and buy a cucumber the size of your dick, lube it up, then "swallow it". I want to hear from you all how easy it was!

    I wonder how many would successfully DT the cuke :eyes
     
  9. Father Bob

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    practice makes perfect....she'll eventually get there.
     
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    Blusey Said
    I have them growing on my patio fence, But I wouldnt try swollowing one as you
    may just do that, Remember a cock is tied to a body that stops
    it from going all the way down.
    I did try a rubber dildo with a base just to see if I could,
    Yea I got it down with a lot of gagging. It would definetly take a lot of practice

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    the cucumber would be attached to yourhand Hiker, someone would have to be a real moron to end up swallowing a cucumber......
     
  12. Bluesy

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    :rofl Silly me, I forgot to say, "But DON'T lube the portion of cuke you're going to hold onto!" I neglected to take into consideration that segment of the population that needs very specific instructions :p

    Keep at it! ;)
     
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    Is it just me,i like a bit of teeth when getting a blowjob?
     
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    Kronnie said
    Someone said lube it and take it all down.
    You go first kronnie.

    Hiker
     
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    Oh well here I go... I only tried to deep throat once and that was with a guy in Miami. He was not too big but I found it easy to do.
     
  16. Kronnie

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    Ive already dt a 6" real cock before so i wouldnt need to check...

    Sorry to spoil your fun Hiker.

    But the whole idea is guys think its a very easy thing to do, a few moments and the female should be able to take it al down, i would suggest that these guys try it first hand and see how easy it is.



    Bluesy hehe, it does seem as though some people would need exact instructions ...silly people hehe
     
  17. Father Bob

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    most women can master the art of DT in a week or so with practice.....contrary to some beliefs.
     
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    the standard is to let go with sex so why set a "must" ?
     
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    Sorry bob i dont believe that..
     
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    This thread is a riot! :lol