Deep throat sex

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  1. civeta_dei

    civeta_dei New Member

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    I recently talked to my girlfriend about a long time fantasy of mine. I saw an adult film once where the woman layed on the bed with her head hanging off the edge, upside down. Then she took him in her mouth and he basically had sex with her throat. Now while this may sound demeaning, I haven't wanted to do it with anyone other than her. She actually is ok with it, and said she wants to try it. Anybody ever have experience with this sort of thing?
     
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    Heh.. I'd most likely gag..-shrugs- But, hey, if you like it, you like it..^^ I hope it works out for you but.. its a kind of one-sided thing, don't you think?
     
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    Well, I've kind of tried but I can only do a little at a time. I suppose what's so good about it for the person giving is the reaction you get...maybe that's just me
     
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    Never experienced it (that way), never asked for it, and was never invited to do so. That last one is probably why never the first two! To me it seems a little degrading, but I'll be the first to admit that my favorite way to give head is to have the woman straddle my face. All that delicious juice just runs in my mouth like I'm a juicer. Yummmmm! Unfortunately, my wife doesn't like it that way.
     
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    just take it easy unless she is used to this it can hurt, a hell of a lot, and while it may seem one sided if the girl loves it as i do, then its not. but it does take practise, and some women just cant do it, for me the pleasure i see on his face is a big turn on, so i love to deep throat, in this or other positions.

    have fun but gently
    ps you may want to think about when you cum, she may not be able to swallow in this position.
     
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    I love deepthroating, and my boyfriend loves it, it wasn't as hard as I thought, so you and your girlfriend should have a try to see if you like it, she might enjoy it.
     
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    I love this position, with my arms essentially above my head, hands on his ass cheeks. Yum! And the view from this position is so delicious.
     
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    It is possible to do that, sure. You have to be *very* careful, though. If she's not trained herself to accept a cock that way, you're liable to get your cock vomited on. That position allows to for seriously deep throat penetration, and it takes some work to get used to being able to take one that way.
     
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    One of my ex girlfriends used to actually pull my ass in really hard to get me all the way down her throat; deep throat is pretty fun(if she's used to it) Altho that position sounds a little scary for at first, you should probably get her to deep throat you in other positions 1st to for her to get used to having that much of you down her throat.
     
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    Never done it in that exact position, but yes I've face fucked my gf before. Pretty nice I would say.
     
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    I've recently started doing this with my boyfriend, and it's awesome, but a word of warning: let HER control your thrusts!! If you start thrusting too hard, she can choke - the first time we did it, I nearly puked! If you let her hold on to your hips and thrust for you, it can be a lot of fun - then you can reach over and play with her! Good times for all :)
     
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    It is a great position. Haven't done it in a LONG time would love to be able to do it again.
     
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    My girlfriend loves this position, took a while to get used to it though
     
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    I love this position, but it does take some getting use to, when my head is hanging off the bed to far my nose and sinuses seem to get pluged so it makes it harder to breath, and sometimes his balls fall over my nose so then I really cant breath but aside from that I love this postion and so does he, I love the feeling of my face being fucked. :)
     
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    Just a few things to keep in mind... Not everyone can, or will be able to, deep throat. In fact, very few people in the general population are able to train themselves to do so. The intensity of the gag reflex varies from individual to individual, so those who don't have a particularly strong one are apt to say, "Oh, yeah, sure, it can be done with some training", taking for granted the fact that not everyone is born with the exact same throat structure. In fact, DTing is sometimes faked in porn.

    If she really wants to try it, there are a few things she needs to do. Head hanging off the bed is the easiest position, but she has to be the one to control movement or else you're going to choke her--she calls the shots. A spritz of numbing throat spray (if you can get your hands on lidocaine, all the better) beforehand can help, too. If she doesn't want to try it in that position, she should still tilt her head back at a slight angle, and then open the mouth wide, as if yawning, keeping the back of the tongue pressed as flat as possible (as if a doctor was inspecting your throat), and stick the tongue out a slight bit past the lips. She should take you in very slowly until she feels the gag reflex activated, then stop and wait for it to pass, then either try it over again or continue taking you in at whatever pace is workable for her. Odds are you aren't going to get very far the first time you try it, or the second, or third...She may very well be able to take you in a little deeper with time and practice, but you're going to have to accept that it may never happen. As I've said, gag reflex varies from person to person and she may be incapable of having a penis penetrate her throat.

    If it just isn't something that's working for her, a nice thing to tell her would be that this fantasy isn't that big of a deal, and there are other things the two of you do that are much more exciting. You don't want her to feel as if she's letting you down. (At least I hope you care about her enough to want to curtail any guilt/frustration on her part.)

    Best of luck to both of you ;)
     
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    Wwooww I Wish A Girl Would Do That W/ Me
     
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    I've never had an experience with it but I know a lot of girls like it but a good amount also think it's too, like, abusive. You know what I mean.
     
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    I've done it before but not in the exact position you mentioned. I've done with him on his knees facing me with me laying on my back alongside him. It's good to remember to be gentle at first because if you thrust too hard it could hurt your girlfriend or make her gag. It's essential that your girlfriend relax her throat and only do what makes her feel comfortable. Deep throating can be a lot of fun if done properly. I find it a real turn on because of how excited it gets him.
     
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    I still gag. :(
     
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    Ive never had it done to me that many times but I can do it pretty good i think.