Before we were married and after married before we had kids my wife was very uninhibited and even a little wild. She admitted to me that she had wondered what it would be like to be with anothe woman and even watched a nice lesbian scene in a tape we often. Since becoming a mom (we have 4 kids) her attitude has changed. Her decreased sex drive I think can be attributed in part to being with four elementary aged kids all day playing referree and cleaning up after them. It's exactly the type of things that puts you in a romantic mood. She even says she never told me about thinking of being with another woman even though during sex when she is sucking me after having been inside her I tell her she would love the taste of a woman and go on to talk about the things she would like about being with a woman. This always gets her noticably aroused bringing her to climax rather quickly. She told her doctor about her decreased sex drive and she offered to give her a shot of testosterone but the side effects scared her away from that idea. I am hoping that this year as our youngest attends school all day her mental outlook will change. Has anyone else gone throught this? I know it's quite common. What did you try? What worked? Any help will be appreciated especially from women that have gone through this.