i was in an unhappy, sexually unfulfilling marriage for 30+ years. After my wife passed away suddenly, I dated a little bit and met my current wife. I have no complaints with our sex life, at least on her part. I love her with all my heart........I feel like I found my soul mate.......in the bedroom. The rest of the time I am so pissed off and angry I don't know what to do. I know how very lucky I am that she accepts my shortcomings and disabilities. I am so lucky to have her in my life. And then 15 minutes later I'm wishing I was alone. Or dead. These extreme mood swings are killing me, and I know I'm no joy for her to live with either. She deserves better. Her constant complaining about every little thing is just so upsetting. For example, she left to go to town today. She let me know she was on her way home. I fixed supper and had it ready to put in the oven an hour before she was due home. Just as she comes in the house, the timer goes off and supper is ready. And she starts complaining. I had cooked too much meatloaf. Although we can have a quick lunch after she gets home from church tomorrow with the left overs. The baked potatoes weren't done enough to suit her, although two minutes in the microwave would have finished them. And she doesn't really like green beans. I'm sure the milkshake she bought on the way home may have made a difference. There is no talking to her. Every time I try she interrupts me, or changes the subject. I know we are together way, way to much. But we don't have any options. If I try and leave the house, all I hear is complaining about how much she had to do, by herself, while I was goofing off. I'm sorry for rambling on. I am seriously considering asking for a divorce. It will devastate her, and be my biggest mistake. But I feel like I am at my breaking point every day, all day long. I feel like I could break down and cry forever.