It's not possible for my husband and I to have sex. He's not even interested in getting off together through snap chat. He's expressed an interest in me sending him sexy stories to get him horny. We have made plans to get off together through text/snap chat but something always comes up or he's not in the mood anymore which sometimes leads to an argument on my end of the lack of anything sexual but that's my problem not his. He's really depressed about being apart and hasn't jerked off in two weeks. My question is if you are not with your partner how do you deal with the lack of sex? I really need to figure this out and not take it out on him.