This kinda long but please read...I need some serious help! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months which doesn't seem like a long time to me...especially when he was with his ex-girlfriend/first love for 3 years! He broke up with her last November because he said they were always fighting and didn't want to be with her anymore. I know that since then she has tried to get back with him (right before we started dating even) but he claims he never wanted to. I know that he loves me and he has never given me any sign of wanting to be with her. He is the most amazing boyfriend i have ever had and we love each other very much. The problem is that I can't get over the ex situation. They were together for 3 years so naturally they have a lot of history. I dated a guy on and off for 4 years so i know what thats like. But it makes me so jealous of what they had. :ugh To make things worse about a month ago I was dying my hair at my boyfriend's house and I got in the shower to wash it out. When I got out the mirrors were steamed up and on the medicine cabinet mirror I could see the words "I love you" and "I love you too" which they wrote on there when a while ago :whoa. It was so horrible to see because then I started thinking about them in there together....taking a shower!!! :mad It hurt me so much. When I finally mentioned it to my boyfriend he apologized and said it was from a long time ago and that he thought he washed it off. She has a boyfriend right now but she has told my boyfriend that she isn't happy with him. She is also pregnant with her new boyfriend and wanted to talk to my boyfriend about it because "he's the only one she can trust." He asked me if it was ok to talk to her and I told him yes but that it makes me uncomfortable and since he is such a great guy he told me he wants to make sure I am happy so he wouldn't talk to her. I know I shouldn't worry or stress about her because my boyfriend loves me but I can't get over the fact that they have so much history together and that she is still lingering around. Shouldn't I be happy that she may have his past but I have his future? Any advice would be awesome!!!!