dealing with loss

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by tiffers, Dec 29, 2012.

  1. tiffers

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    So, I haven't been on here in about 4 months, so idk if any of you know me or remember me, I was pregnant the before lol. Well a lot has happend since then, I was wondering if anyone here has ever lost a significant other and used sex to deal with it... Seems to be what im doing and im not sure if it's a normal thing to do? I've been sleeping with two different people (which is not normal for me to do) but it means nothing to me, and all i can think about is the person i lost... Idk if this even makes sense right now. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
     
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    Dear Tiffers, my heart goes out to you.
    All you are doing is compensating for your loss.
    Everyone is different and act differently.
    You are probably seeking intimacy rather than straight out sex but with those you are with it only comes with sex so you take what you can from that.
    No one here will judge badly you on that.
     
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    Ya, I feel like maybe im looking for him, even though I know I won't find him.. I need to get my mind right again =/