Ok gentlemen, I am putting this out here. I met an awesome guy and dated him several months last fall through Christmas. To make a long story short, we really enjoyed each other's company, and saw each other several times a week. He was into his interest, and I mine, and I found I could really talk to him, and he to me. He was the greatest kisser I have ever kissed, and over three months we only slept together 4 times. It was good, but not great. He has ED, but I enjoyed him so much as a person that it did not matter. The only condition I put on the dating relationship is that I would only sleep with him if we were exclusively sexual; i.e. not fucking anyone else. He bestowed myself and my child with very thoughtful gifts for Christmas, but while he was out of state with family for the holidays, I found out that he was still date searching on the site we met on, and I confronted him. He admitted to meeting one lady in person that he had talked to before me, but says that he told her we were dating and felt bad about meeting her. We broke up before New Years Day. He is 47, and someone broke his heart at 21, and he has never has but one 2 year relationship since then. He admitted that he might just up and vamoose one day to date someone else, and does not want to hurt me. We have been texting lately, and I finally had the nerve to ask him to have a platonic dinner with me. It took him two seconds to say yes. Should I? I like him lots, and I know he likes me. I don't want to marry him, but I sure would like to date him again.... Help. Thanks. P.S. I don't really care to see any snide replies, so refrain if possible. I just want to hear what a man thinks. I know you guys say exactly what you think, and no more than that should be read in to anything.