Ok, I've been trying the dating sites on and off for years. I got a couple dates off them years ago, but nothing lately. I've even tried lowering my standards of who I send too and have had almost no luck. The few ladies that write back are either not appealing to me or obviously fakes or not looking for a date. I'm on most of the popular free sites and tried some of the pay ones in the past, but they didn't work either, mostly scams imo. Do you think there is something wrong with my greeting when I first message someone? I usually just say hi, their name and ask how they are doing and sometimes either comment on something in their profile or ask a question. Or is it just me, getting too old or my pics (which I don't tend to take good pics, but then again don't think I look quite my age or as bad as a lot of guys)?