Cyber sex?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by wholetmydawgout, Jan 11, 2004.

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Do you enjoy cyber sex?

  1. Yessss! (oh yeah, give it to me baby)

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    27.5%
  2. Yess! (do it when I get a chance)

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  3. Noooo! (that's just uncool folks)

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  4. Noo! (tried it, didn't do a thing for me)

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  5. Never tried it

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  6. Cyber sex, what's that??

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  1. wholetmydawgout

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    Hey folks,
    I was sure that I saw a thread somewhere here on cyber sex but after multiple searches I couldn't find a thing so hopefully it isn't a problem.
    I came across cyber sex quite accidentally when first, visiting a couple of sites, and secondly, realizing that Yahoo messenger has a whole host of adult chat rooms and since then have been on there pretty often.
    I have a webcam and will j/o online for the ladies (and sometimes guys pretending to be ladies) while having a really naughty chat. It has been great for me cause I have been single for a long time now and so it is a way of getting it out of my system. Besides, while chatting with a number of females, pretending to have sex with them has given me great practice on what women like and don't. I've done some pretty crazy stuff online and when do I manage to get some privacy and a webcam I've noticed that it takes a good 2-3 hours of my time and sometimes I come back in a couple of hours for more.
    What have your experiences, if any, been with it and how has it affected your sex life - I hope it is not taking away from mine by keeping me content in this superficial world. It can be highly erotic and playful if done well and with the right online partner. Nonetheless, if done on a common basis, it can be very time consuming and makes your life very delusional where you are content in finding sex only through words.
    Anyways, post your thoughts/comments on it.
    A :)
    PS: Also, I have found that if you're a guy and want to cyber online, you have to have a webcam - females aren't really interested in only chatting whereas we males will quite happily settle for ladies without cam or microphone. Anybody else feel that way to? Anybody ever been seen or spotted by someone you know?
     
  2. crusty

    crusty New Member

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    I've only ever done it with gf's (yes real life ones :D ) Its fun when you can picture exactly what you're talking about but can't say that I've done anything like that with a stranger, not really that interested in trying.
     
  3. barbie

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    Cyber Sex

    I'm glad you put up this thread.My husband is on a porn forum,where you can have sex with someone on the board,or through PMs.I discovered by accident,when our PC was messed up,that he had been doing sexy PMs with someone.It made me sick,and when I ask him about it,he said it ment nothing,it was just words.You don't learn what a persons real name is where she lives and tell her you love her.That was back in summer,and I can't get those words out of my head.He is still on this board,and I read every day.We have had a really bad time over this.He says he don't do it no more.I don't mind him playing around on the board with the girls.He really dont do the sex anymore,more like just joking around.So what I'm trying to say is,don't let this be an addiction.If it becomes something you have to do,and it is keeping you form having a relationship,my advice is to put it in prespective.think about it,and please,take all of that wonderfull sexual energy and give it to a nice warm human lady.You will be rewarded,and you will feel better about yourself.Also I watched two marriages go down the drain because of Cyber Sex.one girl left her husband and six year little boy and went to Canada to be with some one she met on line.

    This is for every one who is married,or in a serious relationship,if you love that person don't do it!!!!!!!! It hurts sooooooo bad.
     
  4. wholetmydawgout

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    That's cool barbie and thanks for the input - I definitely had reached a stage of my life (I've been single for a long time now) where I guess I could say I was addicted to it, to the extent that I'd find myself on the net on the early mornings of exams jacking off and cyberring with females online which would take a good 2 hours out of my time.
    I can totally understand the harm it can do to relationships - as far as I am concerned, if you're in a serious monogamous, non-swinger relationship then sex of any kind with strangers (including cyber sex) is definitely cheating. I am soo sorry for your loss and I hope you two bring some resolution to it. However, a question does to come to mind: would you consider yourself in a healthy sexual relationship where both of your needs are being met? In cyber land, you can do whatever you want (things you've wanted to try) that you might be reluctant to do in real life. Maybe, just maybe, your husband saw the internet as an outlet for those kinds of feelings initially and it progressed into what it has become. A candid, open talk about sex between you and your partner would really help cos if he still continues to visit these sites and is flirting with females, I hate to break it to you but he's cheating on you. You seem like someone who is very committed to your relationship and I think it is a shame that your husband does not feel that way.
    Good luck and please do keep us updated.
     
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    crusty New Member

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    You say you can try things that you normally may not have? How is that possible, it is Cyber Sex therefore its not real, its all in your mind, sounds a little bit like you are addicted to it and the lines between real sex and cyber sex are being blurred.
     
  6. wholetmydawgout

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    well, since i am single currently - I must admit that the few times I get online to cyber, it has been great esp. if you have a horny member of the opposite sex reciprocating your feelings. I am disinclined to say that I am addicted - I might have been but now it's just one of those things I try. And I have been surprised by the amount of things that females can reveal to you about what they like during sex by chatting with them because they're imagining what they like and what they want you to do to them - and remember, if you get annoying online, you're "iggy" is just a mouseclick away allowing for people to be more sincere and explore their inner most fantasies.
     
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    i think cyber sex is great. your gonna touch yoruself anyway, why not share the fun with someone else, no different then phone sex ;)

    by the way, if there are any girls on here into it, pm me if you want ;)
     
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    When it comes to cybersex, I tried it really for the first time last week with someone here and it really turned me on. We just sent messages back and forth - no webcams or anything like that and that was enough to get me off! I have a boyfriend but he works a lot so I can't be with him all the time - the exchanges of sexual messages really helps relieve some tension!
     
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    :leghump

    WHICH ONE OF YOU WAS IT? :lol
     
  10. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
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    LOL - I thought about that! - every time we see someone PMing LilKitten, we'll wonder... "Was it him?"

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    You can tell when someone PM's someone else? :) I have no problem sharing who it is but it'd be up to him to let himself be known! :lol
     
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    Aww - we're just messin' with ya'!!!
    We're all a little deranged here - so don't fret about it.

    You have yourself some fun...we won't peek - promise. :shifty

    BUT IT BETTER NOT BE THORN!!!!!

    :hoppingmad

    ;)
     
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    Oh shit!! Sorry Rose, it is! :lol

    Just kidding!
     
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    It was me! Don't be ashamed. Or am I really that bad? J/K :lol :boom (Actually voted no in this poll)

    Admins, Moderators and Contributing members can see who you are sending the message to but can not see the content from the who's online. All other members just see "Private Messaging".
     
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    Got it! Thanks Ryan! You know you wish it was you!! :lol
     
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    OKAY!!!! So - everybody fork out your donations, and get the REAL DIRT!!!
    LMFAO!!!
     
  17. Thorn

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    I hardly ever watch. Maybe I will now.:D
     
  18. Rose

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    Hell - You're 23 years old? THORN wishes it was him! lol
     
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    :lol Too funny!
     
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    No Offense.. But... :nerv :flip :uhh:

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