Hey folks, I was sure that I saw a thread somewhere here on cyber sex but after multiple searches I couldn't find a thing so hopefully it isn't a problem. I came across cyber sex quite accidentally when first, visiting a couple of sites, and secondly, realizing that Yahoo messenger has a whole host of adult chat rooms and since then have been on there pretty often. I have a webcam and will j/o online for the ladies (and sometimes guys pretending to be ladies) while having a really naughty chat. It has been great for me cause I have been single for a long time now and so it is a way of getting it out of my system. Besides, while chatting with a number of females, pretending to have sex with them has given me great practice on what women like and don't. I've done some pretty crazy stuff online and when do I manage to get some privacy and a webcam I've noticed that it takes a good 2-3 hours of my time and sometimes I come back in a couple of hours for more. What have your experiences, if any, been with it and how has it affected your sex life - I hope it is not taking away from mine by keeping me content in this superficial world. It can be highly erotic and playful if done well and with the right online partner. Nonetheless, if done on a common basis, it can be very time consuming and makes your life very delusional where you are content in finding sex only through words. Anyways, post your thoughts/comments on it. A PS: Also, I have found that if you're a guy and want to cyber online, you have to have a webcam - females aren't really interested in only chatting whereas we males will quite happily settle for ladies without cam or microphone. Anybody else feel that way to? Anybody ever been seen or spotted by someone you know?