Cyber sex

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  1. MrIgnites

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    Interested in finding out how many people have cyber sex? If your married or single? If so does your other half know?
     
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    Yes, I do it. My husband knows I do it and has no issue with it.
     
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    Have never done it. Curious. Do you use just typing, camera, or both?
     
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    Used to do a lot of typing, but also do camming and phone calls. I used to virtually whore it up a bit but not so much now. I've had a "steady" for 4 years now and am quite content with him.
     
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    Those of us that were 13 when aol was big, all did it.

    Currently, not really. Too many wierdo's out there with guys posing as chicks, even worse cops posing as 13 year olds, not thatI would be worried about that.
     
  6. Essene

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    I tried it when I was 12 years old. I had an orgasm and never did it again.


    It doesn't quite float my boat in any variant of the colloquialisms understanding.
     
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    I have tried in the past and have never really got anything from it. I love chatting online with strangers about sex but role playing and cybersex just never interested me. I used to use Yahoo but they killed that when they removed user created rooms where there was always a room with your topic going on. Never found anything good in the past few years.
     
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    Yes, I've done it. Yes, I'm married and Yes my Husband knows.
    However, I prefer phone/voice chat to cyber or camming.
     
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    never done it
     
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    I used to do it. Can be very exciting with the right person. I would cam and type, seemed to be more adventurous if there was no talking. Wishing I could find a woman on here that would be interested in some cam flirting, see where it goes from there. :)
     
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    AOL didn't exist when I was 13, hell, not even at 23.

    Never tried it, nothing can replace actual contact.
     
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    It's not supposed to replace actual contact, at least not the way I look at it. It's a mastabatory aid, that's it. For me, it's just another way to get off, no different than looking at porn.
     
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    If I were married, I would not participate in these sorts of sexual shenanigans. The same is applicable for if I am dating.

    I strongly differ in opinion here Barb. I understand that you wrote "For me..." but I think that it is different from porn as you can't interact with your pornographic choice-of-material unless if it's a cam site or a cyber buddy/site. A lot of humans are some what co-dependant. Those who are not still seek attachments in other ways. While emotional and/or sexual ties can be derived from unsocial porn, the type where you just watch and listen, it's rarer than creating such conections from interacting with other people.

    My response isn't to attack your opinion, or you for having it; but merely to pose my own and lightly admonish such a train of though.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    I have to agree with Mira on this. I don't have any interest really for cyber sex but I do like talking online with strangers about sex. I like sharing ideas and thoughts about sex and experiences. The phone works for me also.
     
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    Oh gosh! I remember AOL and Prodigy. I would pose as a lesbian as a lad and attempt to solicit photos from females in the lesbian sections.
     
  17. Barbwire

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    I love how you used the word "shenanigans", made me think of a grandpas saying that. *wink*

    I don't mind you differing in opinion; I never did care for people that agreed with me ALL the time.

    Bad boy! Bad boy! Talk about sexual shenanigans.
     
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    I just wanted to make sure you didn't think I was attacking you. People assume that of me it seems.

    And yeah, I do write and use vernacular of yore. I get it from the old books I use to read.


    Actually, I have role played within the past four years; but it wasn't sexual. It was with a girl and the time period was the 1920's/1930's. She was at a bar waiting for a fellow who just robbed a bank at a saloon.
     
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    I've tried it, I like it, but I find it hard to come by without paysites (not that I have tried them). I'm not so bothered about it now, as I'm in a relationship, but its something that still interests me - my GF knows about this but is indifferent about it.

    Cam is the favourite, but, again, not too much good stuff out there, that I've found anyway!
     
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    I'm not saying that I want to engage in such activities, but f my gf knew I was cybering or engaging in any type of sexual chat with any one, she'd "flip her lid". I find it odd that people are so open to things of this nature. I have a friend who works for a phone sex line. She is a femme dom and makes pretty decent money for only working three hours off-and-on. (Yes I know I ended that sentence with a preposition. Sue me.) He boyfriend is completely fine with this. I was baffled and, to this day, still am.