[Ask a Guy] Curvy girl

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  1. Tantits

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    I've been online chatting with a guy and we are about to meet for casual sex. I'm so nervous because I'm heavier than I would like to be at 150. But no one would ever guess I weigh that much. I have big tits, a small waist but then big hips and thick thighs.

    I have two questions:

    Are guys really ok with s curvy figure or do they want stick skinny.

    What should I wear to look the best. Bra and panties or corset etc.

    Please help!
     
  2. Mobius

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    Just be yourself:) if he doesn't want you than he isn't worth the time in my opinion.

    And for that when guys want sex they usually go for it so try not to get yourself hurt;)

    And what you described of yourself would be lovely to screw around with hehe
     
  3. Kermit

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    Exactly Modius, really if he is so superficial he rejects you, that's his problem not yours. He wasn't worth your time. Me personally it all depends on the girl. Sometimes a bit extra is really cute, other times, it just doesn't work. But it also depends on teh guy, every guys tastes are different
     
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    I'm not a guy but I'll weigh in, I prefer girls (and guys for that matter) that have meat on their bones. I don't like anything I feel I can break.

    Be yourself and keep your chin up.
     
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    Ditto on wanting meat on their bones. My man has muscle, but hes not buff looking which is what I prefer. As long as hes not 400+ lbs with a lot of health issues[since hes too bullheaded to change it, hed rather die] than I am happy...but his bones cant be sticking out because well...thats not right. Meaty is good, a healthy meaty.:)
     
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    Id expect a girl to be the same..sorry for the multiple posts.
     
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    Insufficient data. Please provide pictures.

    Seriously though, the data provided sounds fine, the request for pictures is for the benefit of those who undoubtedly would enjoy them. Which would be pretty much any guy here. You sound like one of those girls that's good looking but think they're too fat.

    As for what to wear, wear what is easy to take off.
     
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    Hi Tantits,
    Obviously mutual agreement the meeting is for sex and you got the goods he wants so what's the problem?
    Personally I like a bit of comfort on my woman too :D
    Wear something that accentuates you best features.
    Go for it, good luck and be sure to update us ok?
     
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    Studies have shown most guys prefer women a little heavier, I don't happen to be one, but apparently I'm in the minority. I wouldn't say "stick thin", I like tight toned bodies. My wife is a fitness fanatic...thats what I personally prefer, she turns heads where ever she goes, but most guys surveyed prefer women shaped the way you've described yourself. If you want to loose weight, do it for yourself.
     
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    Wear something easy to get off :)
     
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    agreed

    I like a thicker girl. If you were like 250 then Id be worried and probably back down from any chance. Meat on the bones is always a turn on. I think alot of guys dont like 'stick' figure girls. Like the supermodel girls in Maxxim or something are always too skinny to think of sexually.

    Be yourself and you will have hot sex
     
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    Once again Untamed comes through with the best advice.

    It doesnt neccessarily have to come off though if its crotchless.:)
     
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    And BTW Thick thin tall short all have their own beauty
     
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    I guess I'm not a lot of guys. Don't like them annorexic, but I only dated thin girls. Most 105lbs soaking wet.
     
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    mmm I like the meat. When I go to smack an ass I dont wanna miss lol
     
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    Oh I never miss, lots of practice.
     
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    haha I like your style. Not all of us are the same. I like smacking and grabbing hand fulls of ass, but there IS such thing as too much
     
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    I'm assuming if you've been talking with him that he knows and loves what you look like. I think women always notice more flaws in themselves than men do. You are your own worse critic! Wear something you feel comfortable and sexy in. You say u have a small waist, large breasts, and bigger thighs so wear something that draws attention to your assets! He may be to busy playing with your titties to even notice you bigger thighs! Everyone has their preferences and I'm sure he will adore you.

    My preference in guys is lean and muscular but I have liked guys with a bit of pudge. My current boyfriend though is beautiful! All I can see on him is bone and muscle and his cute back dimples! And he has fantastically large legs! He actually intimidates me because my stomach is a bit larger than I'd prefer. I'm 109 pounds but all the weight is in my middle. He however loves the way I look and is always telling me how small or tiny I am. We women can be so critical of ourselves sometimes!

    Enjoy your day/night with your guy and don't be self conscious!
     
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    let us know how it goes. We would love to hear all about it.
     
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    thick is better than stick thin....... for me at least. most guys have their own opinions. love burying me face between some thick legs.