Right now, the fact that for 4 months over the summer it was just me and my girl, we did whatever we wanted whenever we wanted. Now that we are back in school, living on campus again, we have so many restrictions. For one, visitation is over at 2am, so I technically can't stay in her dorm, or she in mine. There are ways to get around this such as being in the room before 12am or whenever a serious campus safety individual is at work. It's annoying that i can't spend the night with my girl whenever i want, but even more so on certain nights when we go out to a nice lounge or a dinner and a movie and i have to say goodnight . Another issue is going to a small school and having the same circle of friends with their own opinions, (or heavily influenced opinions) on how our relationship should be. For the most part, we have noticed that the guys aren't concerned too much with our relationship; the ladies are the ones who seem to have the biggest issue with it. I am sort of taken back by some of the comments they say about me and my S/O. Her current decision to cut back drinking, and the fact that she doesn't wear make up as much as she used, and other little things are blamed on me. She also gets heavily criticized because she doesn't visit them that often, but they do not make the effort themselves to reach out to her. My final issue, which can be tied to the first, is a lack of intimacy. Over the summer, the school offered housing at the Holiday Inn for summer courses of study. The privacy we had there was unbelievable. They still offer Holiday Inn residency, but they have full occupancy and single residency is no longer an option. Adjusting from a big ass king size mattress to an extra long twin, in a dorm room is kinda tough. Pair that with extremely limited one on one time, it kinda limits your sex to lil 15-30min sessions with concern of being interrupted. Not to mention squeaky ass beds and paper thin walls. I know a lot of couples would die for 30mins of sex, but being limited to that, takes a lot of the fun out of it; you cant really indulge in foreplay, enjoy each others bodies as thoroughly as you like, or bask in the after glow. We decided to save up some money and spend the weekend at a local hotel not only for some intimate time, but just to get away from the campus for a bit. Well im done venting. these aren't huge problems in our relationship by any means, but i feel as though they are unneccessary stress considering we both are very close to graduating and that should be our focus.