My boyfriend and I are very curious about tantric sex, and we've done a little web searching for some things to try. I have a hard time relaxing during sex (and...during life, really) and really being in the moment. I'm on this journey to relaxation overall and tantra seems like the way to bring that journey to the bedroom. The first time we tried to synchronize our breathing and had extended eye contact...it was really great. So do any of you have any book/website/technique recommendations for a young couple trying to "dabble" in tantra? We both go to school in NJ, so any affordable one day workshops in NYC that you know of would be awesome too.