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Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by mrmint17, Aug 13, 2006.

  1. mrmint17

    mrmint17 New Member

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    Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems as though every X-rated scenario ends with the guy cumming on the girl's face, breasts, etc. What I want to know is am I strange because I don't aspire to this? When I have sex with my girlfriend (whom I have been with for many years and am planning to stay with, so no flack please) we both enjoy it very much if I cum inside her vagina, and I don't believe I have ever fantasized about cumming on a face in my anonymous fantasies. Is this odd?
     
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    While I am with you and have usually preferred to ship my cargo directly into my partner or a condom, I would imagine there are many reasons why one would want to spray their lover’s stomach, breast and face. Some may enjoy finishing their intercourse with a bit of masturbation as they watch that cum shoot and spray onto their partner. Some males may feel more dominant as the shoot onto the face of their lover. The truth is the female is pretty damn dominant as she is in control of the pussy. Whatever a person’s choice for placement of there cum, should make little difference as long as the couple is enjoying it.
     
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    Actually, it's probably because the audience wants to see the big finish. Porn might not be as interesting (and therefore make a smaller profit) if we never got to see the orgasm.
     
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    My boyfriend loves to cum on my face, breasts, stomach, etc. He says it has something to do with the visual of watching the cum shoot out and get all over me. He also says it's very erotic to see it hit my face and then have me stick out my tongue and lick up any cum I can reach. It's interesting because he was really hesitant about cumming on me like that. In fact, he asked me outside of sex if it would be okay because apparently past lovers of his have felt that it was demeaning to them. While I guess I can see their point, it doesn't feel demeaning to me. I love watching the cum shoot out and then licking it up just as much as my boyfriend does! :dgrin
     
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    I will let my hubby shoot anywhere, but the face is off limits.

    #1: I like to see it, if he shoots on my body. If it hits my face, I don't get that joy.
    #2: If it hits my face, (and on accassion is has) - it inevitably gets in my eye. that sucker BURNS!!
    #3: Personally, it is too "fuck you, bitch" for my taste. His cum is sexy to me, and I don't want is to be an area of domination.

    As usual - jmho. :)
     
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    A lot of people seem to feel the same way as you, Rose. As with most things, they aren't for everyone. I never get the feeling of domination when my boyfriend cums on my face. Usually he's aiming for my mouth but misses and it hits my face. I know what you mean about it burning the eyes - that happened once and I told him to watch where he aims next time. And once it got up my nose - wasn't painful or anything but it sure felt weird! :lol
     
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    In not on! IN NOT ON!! Blah.
     
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    Picky, picky... :lol Mel how many glasses of the Grigio have you had?
     
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    I'm firm on that rule no matter how much alcohol I've had.
     
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    I know, I'm just giving you a hard time :p
     
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    I'm alllllll about hard times, not messy ones. LOL. But I swallow like a champ. Yup, I'm in counseling.
     
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    Someone sig this please! *dies laughing*
     
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    Don't make me hurt you, dude. Hmph.
     
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    Have you all ever seen those (pardon my spelling) bukkae pictures where the woman is surrounded by a whole bunch of guys and is just COVERED in cum?! What up with that?! I once heard of a sorority young lady at the University of Tennessee who allegedly fucked one of their larger fraternities. The guy who told the story said that he was a new member and the last to fuck her that night. He said that he couldn't get any friction and asked her to get on top. He said that she got off her back and crawled over to get on top of him. In the process, her vagina drained and he said that she got the semen of about 50 other guys all over him! Still couldn't get any friction so, in disgust, she got up and went home dribbling cum all over the floor as she went. I guess that if she'd gotten pregnant, she would have had to arrange for 50 paternity tests to find the father.
     
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    that too me is a guaranteed lifetime membership to the free clinic
     
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    I definitely share that sentiment, Mel. For a while my ex-boyfriend's favored method of "birth control" was pulling out. I know, I know...he was wacko. I've been told by some of my male friends that there are certain things the penis doesn't want to be doing when coming, and pulling out is definitely one of them. Anyway, I've been cummed on too damn many times. My boyfriend has always finished inside, unless it's something special like a hand job or blow job.
     
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    I agree with you.I mean,to each his/her own,but not me.
     
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    Facials are popularized by porn movies and I agree every one seems to end that way with the "money shot". I've never done it and guess it's probably little more popular with a younger crowd? Personally I like to shoot on breasts, belly, inside mouth or inside pussy.
     
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    I don't know... I'm one of the "younger crowd", and I don't find it terribly appealing. I guess it's just too messy for me. I don't mind if my boyfriend cums on me while we're in the shower, but if we're elsewhere, it's inside or not at all.
     
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    That's interesting, because, as far as 'messiness' goes, I find it much less messy to clean up my belly or boobs....(with the help of those boxed towelettes at my bedside). I totally hate it when cum starts dripping out of me onto the sheets, or down my legs and on the carpet, etc., while I have to get up and run to the toilet to allow drainage. YUCK!
    jmho :)