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  1. boobjob

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    I am interested on thoughts about cum shots. Someone recently mentioned pulling out and wanking on his partners tits. Judging from that and all the porn I've seen it seems to be a common turn on. I just don't get it though. If I pull out it is either at a point that I'm so close that I ejaculate just as I pull out, I thrust against a body part till I cum or she pumps my cock till I cum. At that point I'm not to interested in jerking myself off. When I watch porn and a guy pulls out and starts jerking I get bummed out. I understand that its the easiest money shot but I would much rather see the partner jerk him off. Any opinions?
     
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    im laughing because ive actually had her slap my hand away from my own cock...when she's pleasuring me she doesnt like me getting in the way..
     
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    me, too, she says she knows how to take care of it so i should leave it alone unless she invites me to do it myself!
    the idea of pulling out just so i could wank myself off on her is lost on me!
     
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    she says it's HER cock...lol...and she says she has the proof..legal and binding, because i wrote "property of ----- -------" (her name) on it with a sharpie once and she has the photo to prove it...:lol

    i gotta get that picture back...
     
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    I agree that it's primarily a porn "money shot" in that they think that's what the viewer wants to see. How many "real" people do that, I have no idea but it can't be many.
     
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    Our women like to see us explore our own sexuality just like we like to see them explore theirs. She love's it when I pull out and shoot all over her.She likes to lay there rubbing it all over herself then lick her fingers as she looks in my eyes.
     
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    I have done it myself a few times, most of the time though she says that she wants me to pull out and cum over her tits but I sometimes do not ahve the required self control and end up making a mess insid eof her.

    When I do manage to pull out and cum on her I have on occasion shot her in the eye which apparently really stings, she had a red eye for a couple of days after.

    Not done it for years though, the closest has been when she had our eldest kid and she couldn't have sex sue to stiches but she was still horny so she played with herself and asked me to play with her and cum on her belly so I didn't shoot her in the eye again.
     
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    Few mature men want to watch a guy jerk himself off, let alone into a woman's mouth. It's the degradation of women that appeals to the immature or depraved viewer, and the best way to ruin any scene in porn IMO.
     
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    Actually, the tits money shot in porn is one of the more believable ones. I can't say the same for the facial money shot that seems to be the norm in recent porn. While I have known a few women who actually liked this and I have obliged them, I find most do not like this and it's not something I would just do without invitation.

    Most women I have known prefer you cum on their tits when you for what ever reason are not cumming someplace inside her. Some actually enjoy seeing a man stroke his cock as he cums for her.

    I agree with pbs. I neither enjoy seeing, nor known any women who wants a guy to jerk off, aiming into her open mouth. Since the porn industry thinks that they have to actually show the guy cumming every time, I can only imagine that this derives from the fact that many women are turned on by a guy stroking the base of their cock, while they give him head. This I know many women enjoy and ask for, but the above mentioned money shot? Well anyone who has seen them know that you can see all over the actress' face(pun not intended) that they really don't like it.
     
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    Cumming on tits is hot. My wife enjoys that. Facials she is okay with but says she has to be in the "right mood".
     
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    Proof is in the pudding. Not one lady has responded to this thread. It is obviosly a porn thing for guys only. Until at least one of women here says so, I have a hard time believing any likes to have someone jerk off on them.
     
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    I think that the cum shots in porn are for men because they hold the most fascination with cum and are always wanting to compare how much they produce with other men just like they compare dick size with them.
     
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    I agree. But there most be more to it. That comparison would work just as well if the lady pulled his dicck out and jerked till he came. What I relly hate is the vids with a woman just lying (or worse kneeling) waiting for him to come. Idk.
     
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    Hey Barbwire, how've you been? I hadn't been on this forum for a while. Hope all is well.
     
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    If the guy wants to do that that's ok with me.
     
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    That would be MY kind of gal, the one who does the finishing for me.
    Masturbating myself is for ...... d-uh myself when by myself.
    When I see a woman play with her nipples during sex I go for them after watching how she does.
     
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    Porn is hardly ever perfect. Either the camera is always focusing on her face the entire time, and just when it gives you a pussy shot it goes back up to her face, I mean come on, no one wants to see her face, or when it comes to blow jobs and hand jobs, even some porn stars are terrible at it and can't even put it in their mouths.
    But when it comes to cum, it's even more aggravating.

    I always get so disappointed whenever they don't do creampies in porn videos. But I am also equally dissapointed when you can't see the creampie, and you only get a one second shot and the video abruptly ends.

    I swear cum shots were invented by girls who were terrified of cum in their pussies LoL.

    I mean, some of the loads that some men in porn can bust out are very impressive and really hot. But then it only leaves me imagining what it could have been during actual sex, and thinking what a waste of perfectly good cum, that could have messed up her pussy and got everywhere and would have been the most perfect creampie ever if it wasn't wasted in mid air.

    Anyways the reason why they do the pull out method and cum shots is not just a money shot, in fact it aggravates many viewers. In the porn industry, although the actors and actresses can be desensitized, they still have their own personal preferences, and many of them do not prefer creampies for various reasons. Just the same as not all porn stars do anal, and how many of them specialize in a certain area. If you can imagine how many times they have sex on a regular basis, and how annoying it becomes to clean up all those messy creampies, it is eventually seen as a hassle. Then the fetish for cum shots became pretty big. The industry big dogs and producers sometimes do not allow it. They typically take many precautions, such as getting their performers tested for Std's and Sti's on a regular basis before they are allowed to perform. Female performers are also (sometimes) taken care of and supplied with proper birth control, but the "pull out method" is another prevention they can take seriously.

    Cum is really hot to see, but the thing is, it is even hotter for me when the guy cums during a sexual act, and doesn't just grab his dick to make it happen, and hurry it up and finish it off. It is annoying, because they never look really into it, they just look inpatient and like they are thinking, "oh she sucks at this, i can just do it myself to make it go quicker." ROTFL. One of my favourite things is to jack off my partner when we are having MB sessions together, it is so hot, but that is a whole different thing than sex to me. I expect him to go again and cum in me the next time.
    But some girls in porn videos are terrible at handling dicks, so I would much rather see him do it properly. And the other terrible thing about some porn videos, is you can totally tell the only reason she is relieved and looking happy at the end, is because it is done and over with. And facials, and blow jobs and cumming in mouths. You can totally tell most of those girls on porn are faking actually swallowing it, and you can tell they don't want it in their mouths or that they have been ordered to not actually swallow.

    I always exit videos as soon as the dude grabs his dick to cum all over the girl, just because what I am more interested in seeing is the actual penetration and sex. You don't tend to see using body parts to stimulate a good cum much, but that is always hot.

    But then creampie videos usually suck too. The whole point of watching a pussy being cummed in, is I know what's going on in there, but I want to be able to see it, and not just see it for a second afterwards and have the video stop.

    They are also majorly against premature ejaculation in the porn industry LoL. What pisses me off the most is you see it often that a guy accidentally creams inside the girls pussy during their performance. You see maybe only a second of evidence, along with obvious signs. Then the film stops, or the camera guy "just happens to turn the camera at a different angle" and it is gone. Or the classic, he cums in the pussy and you can totally tell people in the background are giving him some hand language to discreetly rub it off his dick so the viewer hopefully does not notice.
    But the worst ones are when the film actually stops, and you can tell they took a break and the girl probably spazzed at him, had to get cleaned up and he got in major trouble and then they resumed having sex.

    And then you also have female ejaculation, white female ejaculate which is also stimulated by the g spot and is really hot, and they also try to hide that as well. Maybe because it is not as known about as the liquid type, and you might get viewers mistaking it as vaginal discharge LOloololol.

    The creampie videos I like are those more amateur ones, or accidental or unwanted creampies, but my all time fave creampie vids are the ones where he cums but keeps on fucking the creampie out. Because then you get to see the messy creampie during actual penetration.

    Well I prefer creampies, and I love cum shots but only if there is more sex afterwards and lots of creampies, but in the world of porn there never is.

    In real life it is always so much better. But when Im using porn to get off, it takes quite awhile to finally stumble upon a good video.
     
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    There is something empowering about coming on a girls tits.
     
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    I have done that. Not one high on the list of ways to cum.

    Was married for 20 years, no more, and she would swallow, now, nope. Even hold the base of cock when she does so I can cum while she finishes the act.

    Not sure what the aversion is? She cums and is all over my face and she has an Not sure an aversion to kissing me with your juice on my face.
     
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    I LOVE watching him finish anywhere on my body. He hardly ever does it though. He knows I like it and it's kinda like a very special treat I get every now and then.