Cuming while not hard

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  1. Hertoy

    Hertoy New Member

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    I did this a little while ago. I got myself worked up to the point of cuming then when I was about to shoot I stoped. After a few min. I got limp and started stroking really fast my limp cock. I shot a load while I was still soft and it was amazing! It felt better than with a hard on! I wonder if anyone else has done this?
     
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    Sometimes in tantric meditation I have orgasms while limp, but no actual ejaculation.
     
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    Hertoy,
    I did once, while masturbating several years ago. As I recall I was tired and couldn't sleep. I was stroking myself but not getting fully hard and then BAM! Sleepy time.

    Ninja,
    I had that happen to me just a couple weeks ago. My wife was caressing one of my nipples, and I had a full-body orgasm. She reached down to grab my cock and was surprised to find it limp. I was surprised too! It didn't stay that way for long, however!
     
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    A guy does not need to have an erection to have an orgasm (although it sure helps). At my advanced age, and because of some meds I am on, I sometimes want to "do the deed" but the body doesn't cooperate so I don't get as hard as normal. But it can still be fulfilling.
     
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    Yup...and I have no idea why it is better soft then hard..lol
     
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    Intersting. I may have to look into this. This has never happend to me before but maybe some experimentation is in order.
     
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    It happened to me once, it does feel good.
     
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    Never done it exactly like you described, but close. :) For me, orgasm from anal stimulation alone without so much as touching my cock was the most amazing, although I've only done it once. :)
     
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    I tend to have an orgasm faster when it is softer. id est, I don't last as long that way.

    When I am first with a new partner, anxiety normally disallows erection. However, last time I got fed up and we both decided that I might as well finish anyway. That is when I learned I can have a full orgasm with very little erection (and none at all preceding the orgasm).
     
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    Yep I've done it, Many times.

    Hiker
     
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    I've had it happen before. While masturbating for awhile, getting sidetracked, and then going at it again.
     
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    The last time it happened to me I was pretty young. Sounds interesting, maybe I'll try to pull this off and see if it's as great as you guys say.
     
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    Never happened to me yet... Huh.
     
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    Masturbate to almost the point of orgasm then stop. Wait until your soft and then go fast. That usually includes an ejaculation though. I think it's better without.

    Hey, do you ever think there was a karate instructor named like Joe Bates? He'd be Master Bates :)
     
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    :lol:lol:lol:lol:lol
     
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    I had that happen to me once... It didn't felt good at all. I prefer getting hard as hell before cuming.
     
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    happened to me a few times. i have to say its awesome.
     
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    I can get all the arousal feelings while soft but I've never orgasmed in that state as far as I can remember.
     
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    i didnt even think that was possible.