The last 2 relationships I've had have been 2 years each. In both of them I have had a problem of cumming way too fast for about the first 3 or 4 times we had sex. After those times, things get much better and I have enough control to sometimes last 15 minutes or more. It sucks to start off an intimate relationship that way because I feel like after that happens the first time whatever negative impression she feels will be very hard to overcome. So, I'm in a new relationship right now, and when we are ready to sleep together for the first time, I'm really scared it's going to happen again. She is far and away the most gorgeous woman I've ever been with, and I'm afraid that might make it even worse. If anyone has any suggestions they would be greatly appreciated.