Cuckqueaning!

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  1. MissLady89

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    So, I've always had a fantasy of wanting to watch my guy go to town on another girl. I'd love to watch & see both of them being pleasured. I'm a pretty open minded girl & have always been OK with the idea of sharing. I do want a threesome & would be glad if it ended that way, but first I just want to see another girl riding my man. So my question is, how do you go about bringing this up to another girl? I would want to be the one planning it with her & would like it if communication stood between us girls. Also, how do I mentally & emotionally prepare for this? Any other women who experienced this & have some tips for setting the mood, enjoying it all, & making sure this doesn't drive a wedge between spouses? I want this to happen very soon, but am kind of uneasy/nervous about it.
     
  2. Knine86

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    i know im not a female but my girl friend and i have actually been through something similar, however it was her that got shared with another guy. she and i had talked about some sexual things that led to talk of threesomes and an open relationship, not permanatly. so the way she brought it up to the guy was she had started to talk to him about sex and was asking him if he would ever do it with her. so once he said yes and was assured i was flattered she brought up the idea of him having sex with her. so quickly he agreed. the way i prepared for it was i viewed it as a positive experience because at the time i felt the agreement was pretty solid. so when i dropped her off (no i didnt get to watch but it was planned on for latter episodes) i was pretty excited giggling like a school girl and she was slightly nervous. she had never had any one be excepting and this was a new experience for both of us. we were both happy as well as the other guy. i think for preparation you need to almost be fearless because with out trust that this is healthy, its not. if one of you has any fear of the other doing anything no acceptable then this is not a healthy idea, she and i trust each other. how ever it has put a strain on our future plans of involving some one else because basically what happened was she lied to me... then again... etc. we are fine now and happier than ever and she has accepted her issues but i didnt let it get me down and still trust her. so trust is the biggest thing when it comes to involving a third person weather its for you or him. if you cant trust him or he cant trust you please dont put that strain on your relationship. im not saying never do it because i feel my gf and i are richer for the experience and since have made a sex rule book for involving those outside our relationship and have agreed the rules do no bend even a fraction. so if there is a doubt of trust step back from it and come to an agreement that you both feel is trust worthy and safe for your relationship to advance with this experience
     
  3. Cappy_Dick

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    First of all, you need to find out how he feels about this. While most men are quite open to having another woman share him in bed, some have no interest in it. If he is interested, you have to decide whether or not he has the stamina needed for an ffm threesome. If this is a go, then we'll move on to you.

    Fantasies are one thing, but acting them out is quite another. Imagining him with another is obviously hot to you in your mind, but you really need to think about how you would feel with this happening in reality. You have to be 100% sure you are ok with this. You really need to soulsearch on this one.

    Also, you need to examine your own sexuality. FFM threesomes can be awkward if both females are not at least bi curious. Also, make sure that any ground rules/boundries are clearly understood by all.

    Once the above is clear and organized, there should be no reason why you can't act on this.

    xx
     
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    Being a cuckquean is a kind of role. It's a game. It's a pretty serious game, of course: your man is supposed to be cheating on you. It isn't just a threesome. It isn't just your man having sex with another woman with your approval, while you watch them as if they're porn. If you're going to label yourself a cuckquean, then think about what that means. Maybe the way you decide to play it, you're supposed to be uneasy.

    A game like this needs rules. Work those rules out with your husband before you do anything to bring this up with another girl. If it's really just a threesome you want, work out the rules for that too.
     
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    i think we all agree and is the biggest bit of advise we all have for you. Rules, rules, rules. once the ground rules/boundries are established then you can move on
     
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    OK, so THAT'S what that word means! I once was in a FFM Threesome with my late 3rd wife. She could pronounce "Menage a Trois" such that it sounded like some exotic dessert in some unaffordable restaurant. But she was not of one mind about some of the things we tried. She could be very enthused one day, and the next it would be wise not to mention it.

    So (at 63) I urge you to be sure of where you are, and then where they are; be VERY sure. Once it goes from how would it be to something-done-last-night, nobody gets a do-over. That can become a major issue, in too many ways to discuss them all in 1 rant. But I can guarantee that if it makes problems & those go away quietly, that's how they will return.

    Might be back with more details later, or I might not unless asked. Best regards.
     
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    Interesting you say this. Watching someone go down on someone else, I can safely say, is the only type of "threesome" I have any interest in. So I get what you mean.