couples please

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by witchblade, Apr 7, 2007.

  1. witchblade

    witchblade New Member

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    how many of you have a "third" to your relationship??? my b/f wants a third.. but kinda worried i'll be replaced... ???:nerv
     
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    I would be very cautious of that request if i were you.
    Has he offered to let you have a third.
    Sure it would be nice to have a piece of pussy on the side,
    But that is not the way the world works.

    please tell us your experience with men And age so we can
    answer this more intelligently

    hiker:sf
     
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    My wife and I have FFM threesomes every couple of months. But, we did not start this until we had been married over 10 years. I think 3somes with longterm partners are great, but I can see potential trouble with non-committed partners.
     
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    We have not had a third part involved. I have longed to be with two men, but we agree that it is to dangerous for our marriage to play this game. I will not lose my husband for some sex game.
    /Grandma
     
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    Depends on your world sir.

    Apparently a few of us here live on a different one to you.
     
  6. Puss_in_boots

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    I guess it all depends on how secure you are in your current relationship. If you're worried about being replaced then that's a sign of your relationship not being secure enough to attempt to add a third.
     
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    We,ve talked about having another woman join us..........and actually a few yrs. ago placed some ads to see what responses we would get...:eek , not exactly what we were hoping for...so nothing ever happened. Since then we dont really bring it up....because we pleasure and satisfy one another completely. Our marriage is very strong and a replacement partner is not what either one of us desires......a 3rd was more less a fantasy...we saw what was out there responding to us , and decided that a 3rd person will remain a fantasy!
     
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    If you are uncomfortable with such a thing, communicate it. Seriously, tell your SO. If he does not understand, then leave him.
     
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    If it dont feel absolutely right...

    dont do it girl!
     
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    Witchblade has not came back
    so i guess this case is closed.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    I think the conventional wisdom among persons who do threesomes is that it will strengthen your relationship if your relationship is strong to begin with, which is the case with me, but is devastating to a weak relationship.
     
  12. burton

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    I agree, if you're questioning it and feel like it might be a mistake.. don't do it.. or atleast wait until you feel comfortable. if it's a problem for him that you won't have another female in your sex life with him.. maybe it's time to raise a bigger question..