Couple watching porn

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  1. Elmassuelto787

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    Okay so first of all I didn't know where to ask this, but this section seemed to be the most appropriate one, sorry in advance if in the wrong place.

    Recently me and my girlfriend have been discussing the idea of watching a porno together and doing it while it's on. Now this is the first time we have bothboth done this so we both have been saying it's kind of weird, in regards to like what do we do. Do we play the movie and watch it completely and do it after. Do we mute the movie. Is one person going to be more interested in the movie than the other.

    So I was just wondering if anybody had done this before with their partner and if you could provide some advice or share your experience.

    Ps I know I sound like a nob my bad
     
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    i don't think you can pre-plan what will happen
    just watch and see what you feel like at the time
    she may be very turned on and what attention immediately, with or without the video still on
    but also be prepared she may be turned off completely or of course anything inbetween

    Has she watched vidoes before, does she know what type of video she likes to watch
    Or has she never watched a video and its the "idea"
    if its just the "idea" and she has never watched - there is a chance , it turns her off
     
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    It can be...weird. My gf can be judgemental, and so watching porn with her is a bit nerve wracking. Hell, deciding which porn to watch usually turns me off to the process altogether.
    My advice is to observe her porn viewing activity outside of your presence. Check her web history, make sure she has an urge to watch/whack off to porn and isnt just down for this because you like it. I think a lot of women do things outside of their sexual comfort zone(watch porn, threesomes) in a misguided attempt to share something with their SOs only to regret it later. Before you guys watch together, honestly, I think she needs to be self driven to watch on her own.
     
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    I tried once with my exhusband pre-inner-whore-release. We tried to do what they were doing. I wasn't into some of the stuff. This was VHS days.

    I tried with an exbf and we couldn't find a vid we both liked. He claims not to watch much.

    I guess it depends wavy the goal is. If you want to use it as a tool to get horny, maybe just figure out what you both like, maybe tease each other by sending potential vids to each other... Can't wait to do this with you texts.

    If you want to copy them, well, I guess you still need to agree on what stuff you like to watch.
     
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    Thanks for all the feed back. But yeah she says she don't watch it which I believe since we always busy her more than me, she did tell me she watched with one with a partner before she meet me and said that it was weird.
    The idea was thrown out by me because it is something I have never done, and when she told me she had done it before I said well maybe we should try it. Joking I said let's just play the movie and do it while their doing it and see what's over first our session or the movie
     
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    I've done it a bunch of times with guys I've dated and guys I hook up with, only one wasn't into it. Most of the time, it's easy to find something we're both into and it works as good foreplay since I lose focus on anything else going on once the sex starts lol.
     
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    Yeah, not everybody likes it. My man watches porn and I'm with him, sometimes, when he's watching. I don't watch. I'll be either sucking his cock, or we'll be having some other kind of sexual thing. I never look at the screen, if I can avoid it.

    So, he mostly does it when he's jerking off and I'm not in the house. I try not to be judgemental. He just knows I don't find it exciting and the reason I don't want to look at it, is because it may turn me off.
     
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    I'll just say this, as a man, it's very daunting when you are sitting in front of a 70" television and a penis takes the whole thing over ...

    I mean, dayum
     
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    Couple watching porn for $300 Alex.

    Who are two guys denying they are Bi?
     
  10. Sagittarius84

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    It's sad really, I wish porn was something I could share with my gf like weed and scary movies... but given some of her judgemental tendencies(and jealousy issues), it's probably for the best.
     
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    I'm not gonna convince you, I know, but life without porn is possible and it's fine. When you never watch it, you get arousal from other things.

    It's like looking at a bright light. You can't see anything else, because you're staring at that bright light for so long, when you look away, your eyes are too hurt to see how beautiful the world really is. And before your eyes are normal again, you stare again at the bright light.

    You see many things in porn you'll never do. And consciously you know you won't and, consciously, you're OK with it. But subconsciously, you've created a wanting for that in your brain. Our brains learn all the time. Things we want them to, and things we don't.

    Anyway...
     
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    Yes, the brain is a very sensual organ...
     
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    We like to watch porn together. We both choose a video that looks sexy with something we are both into. Sometimes we just hav i playing in the background and other times we copy what they are doing in the movie. Can be awkward first few times but now we find it such a turn on.
    Hope this helped :)
     
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