Could my wife be moving toward mfm???

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by CuriousHubby, Oct 12, 2012.

  1. CuriousHubby

    CuriousHubby New Member

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    Hello everyone.
    I'm new here and have been reading about all of your sexual exploits and all your feelings regarding them. Its been great! :) So I've finally gathered up enough balls to post my first thread and get some feed back.
    Ok, my wife and I have been married for 15 yrs and I'm the only man shes been ever been with sexually, and I've only been with 2 other girls before her.
    My wife grew up with a very straight arrowed mother who never talked about sex and on top of that shes very shy and rarely talked about sex at all.
    Needless to say it took me along time to get her to the point we are at now.
    We are at a point where we can talk openly about different sexual feelings we have. Which leads me to my question...
    If she is willing to lay in bed with my best friend and let us both massage her with oil could that mean she is moving toward a mfm?
  2. Maverick

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    She's at least getting more comfortable with touch. It could be she's ready to go farther (and I assume ya'll are talking about it) and she's taking it slow by going into touch first.

    Ask her. Just be straight up. And if she does, enjoy it.

    Be careful that you don't get something you may be unprepared for. Been with a few un experienced women, and most have become something of wildly sexually open. :)

    Bottom line, enjoy the ride!!

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    woe, to have your friend put oil on her is a big step dude...Go for the kill, ask her if she would do things to your friend, in jest 1st .....by the way hyer, and welcome
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    First try with another couple...may be your friend with his girl....enjoy mutually...and slowly move to MFM. while both you couple enjoy ask your friend to give few simple encouragements to your wife..may be a light touch..quick kiss..etc.
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    Be very, very careful. I've been that friend three times, and both couples in your situation broke up. Each time the girl wanted more, either a repeat, to actually cuckold the husband, a gangbang, etc. that was a deal breaker to the hubby. If you're not ready for her to be a full on whore, open to many other men, etc. Once she realizes the power she holds over you, if she exploits it, it can go downhill quick
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    Esozh is absolutely right. You have to be mentally prepare to just give it all up, either join her and become someone like me, or break up.
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    And by the way, if you get to the point that she ok laying in bed as she gets oiled, if it really happens, its not going to end in just being oiled.
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    Are you the type that likes to see her get nailed while you ONLY get to watch? I say this only because I am not. I have had a few 3/4/more somes. They were all fun except the most recent where the wife wanted only one guy and I was ignored. It caused jealousy issues and is a hard thing to understand. (We are very open with our fantasies too)

    Like they say Tread lightly. It is a great time unless it isn't LOL
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    Um... gentlemen? You realize that Esozh last posted October 14 of 2012, right?
  10. HotForHoney

    HotForHoney Gold Member

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    It just means she's that much closer. Shouldn't be long now before he posts the 3-way story.
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    backcheck64 Gold Member

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    Or a divorce story.
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    I've done about 20 threesomes with couples, and about half the husband watched and the other half the husband wanted to take his turn after me. With one exception they couldn't get hard enough. Despite this being many men's fantasies I'm not sure if jealousy does take over, or if it's just peformance anxiety. Having done gangbangs I have seen a lot of pure performance anxiety because jealousy wasn't an issue. It can be hard to have sex sharing the bed with another man, but I like being watched so I don't have a problem.

    If you want to play and can't it leads to big disappointment, and a few times with some very angry husbands (and very satisifed wives). Even though it was the husband's initial fantasy, every single married woman was hot and wet and ready for me, and they enjoyed having the opportunity to have another partner with permission. That enjoyment, his wife and I, made it even harder for the disappointed or angry husbands. I did my best to reassure them that their experience wasn't unique, but having just successfully gotten hard and fucked their wives, those reassurances can only do so much.
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