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Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by John Keel, Sep 9, 2006.

  1. John Keel

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    Things that make me breathe hard always seem to involve control.

    Breath control, for example. Taking her by the throat while looking into her eyes...god damn. I've done this in a bar, although I don't reccomend it. Lying on top of her while she tucks her knees in and compresses her chest, with or without fucking her at the same time. Kissing her while performing an assisted front naked choke using her shirt.

    Power games. I've never liked rope or cuffs - it's much more debilitating and intense if she stands still and squirms and holds eye contact while I do things to her, knowing that she can move away but feeling like she just can't. "If you move, I'll stop." Statue games. Blindfolds, although I do things with eye contact and a soft voice that I probably shouldn't.

    There's more. These sprung to mind.
     
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    I'm kind of reminded of the masochist who begged "BEAT ME!, BEAT ME!" to which the sadist sneered, "NO!" ;>
     
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    Uhm, by the way, you're not Hulk Hogan, The Undertaker or one of those other professional wrestlers ("rasslers") are you?!
     
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    I think that stuff sounds hot.
     
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    Whoa! I think I know what you mean...and what I'm envisioning is turning me on as I type. So, give us an example.
     
  6. John Keel

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    It doesn't make much sense to duplicate via text.

    It really doesn't have anything to do with what's said, either. It's all about intonation, movement, cadence, volume...Assuming you were interested and it was getting to closing time, I'd likely stare into your eyes and read you my grocery list.
     
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    That would probably work on me, too. I'm a sucker for guys who are that involved in the art of seduction. You have to have confidence to spare to be that daring, and that in itself is incredibly sexy.
     
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    Everyone needs a hobby. :)
     
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    I still think that it sounds like a professional rasslin' match! ;>