I am actually "ynosoiav's" wife. I hope I am not breaking any rules by making a thread. I want to get some sort of birth control pill, patch, shot (?) but I am not sure if it is safe for me (I am 50). I am peri-menopausal (meaning I have a period about once every 3- 4 months or longer), but I SURE don't want to get pregnant. My husband and I would like the experience of him cumming inside me, rather than always having to pull out. And even that can be risky. Is there anyone out there that takes birth control (at 56, condoms take the sensation away from my husband too much) Also, I read in another thread that one can actually get pregnant if husband cums inside during anal sex. We use this form of sex, and I thought we would be safe. Thanks.