After reading a thread recently about confidence being a major turn on for lots of women, I have a question for the ladies of SF. To me, confidence is something important to have(and I definitely see how it's a turn-on), but arrogance is only annoying to me(it's a major pet peeve of mine). Lately, I've had a lot of self-confidence, but I don't want it turning into arrogance. I want to stay very self-confident, but not become arrogant. What do you define as the difference between confidence and arrogance?