Condom help

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  1. Coffee

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    Perhaps this belongs in the "Ask a guy/girl" category.... Lately, I've had to go back to using condoms and find it nearly impossible to cum while wearing one. It's becoming a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy now - I expect that it won't happen, so it doesn't. After years of not wearing one, it just doesn't feel the same as being bare.

    Does anyone have a) a similar issue, b) advice on how to cum while wearing one, c) a particular brand that improves sensitivity? (I've used a bunch of different "thin" varieties, with limited success.)
     
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    Stab in the dark but have you tried jerking off with one or putting a little lube on first?
     
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    Had the same issue after I got divorced. Pick up a pack of the thin type condoms and some lube and jerk it though a couple packs. Retrain the brain so to speak. Also helps practice getting the dam things on quicker LOL.
     
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    Thanks! The irony; finally getting sex again and I have to masturbate in order to enjoy it!
     
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    Have you tried lambskin condoms? They transfer heat better than others. They do not protect against stds though.
     
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    I haven't - I'll have to give them a try; I think Trojan is the only one making them.

    Thanks!
     
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    We use Trojan bareskin when we have to use them. They don't feel much different and I can still feel his heat.

    Like others said, jerk off with the condom on and it should help.
     
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    Well, sure, there's all this advice or you could just give up on sex entirely. :p
    (I'm the "helpful" one, by the way.)
     
  9. Alwayslearningsex

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    I tried a few. I found the ones closer to my penis size work better. I had "tight" ones that made the experience less pleasant, from putting one on, to the sensations, feeling snug while wearing one, and the ejaculation feeling "blocked".
    I found a better sized one feels better in all aspects and funny, it allows me to last longer than a tight one while allowing a better orgasm.