Guys and Girls.... So how often have we given a compliment only to find the other person hasn't accepted it / can't agree with it / didn't hear it / perhaps even even didn't recognise it? On the other hand, how often do we get a complement and we think do they mean me?? / they don't know me / they're just being kind / or even what are they after :lol..... I know I've had to teach myself to accept complements, whether I agree with them or not, to my shame I generally take the ..."they're being kind" route... but how does it make you feel when a complement falls on deaf ears? Does anyone else find them hard to cope with? Does this damage a relationship do you think?