Competing With Video Games?

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  1. Courtbear

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    Hello,
    I was just wondering if there were any other girls out there having to compete with video games. It seem like my significant other is more interested in playing Modern Warfare than doing anything with me. He stays up until all hours of the night playing and then uses porn to get other jobs done after I have gone to bed.:jerkit Even if I am obvious that I want to have sex he gets mad that I am interrupting his game. Any Advice?:ugh
     
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    Sounds like my son, I'm afraid (son doesn't take after father). I rarely turn down sex for anything!

    My only advice is to, maybe, find another SO.
     
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    I myself like playing that game but he needs to get his priorites straight. The can be fun but come on. Sex with a real person instead of rosey palm and he five friends. Your mans got some issues.

    My advise is come up in something tiny and sexy. If that doesnt work ditch his ass!
     
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    Thank GOD I don't have that problem. I think you should find another guy. He may be just a video game nerd. So either join in, or find a new way to deal with it. Maybe, like drape some sexy panties over his shoulder, and whisper in his ear, I will be waiting for you in the bedroom to do as you please...and if he comes, with his tail between his legs, then stay. If he keeps playing his damn video games, get the hell outta there.
     
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    Yeah he might take gaming alittle too far. I play myself but I wouldnt tell here to go away and leave her to sleep horny. "Ill be right there after this game" is what Ill say. Exit the lobby, bang it out, rest, continue playing now that shes satisfied in a deepp sleep :)

    MW3 sucks asshole anyways, he needs to find a better game lol, or maybe not.
     
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    Ditch the kid and get a real & mature dude :eyes
     
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    Never have I and never will I choose video games and porn over a woman.
    I am a "gamer" and will play video games for hours on end, but they are still just games. If a woman made it clear that she wants some action, the game becomes meaningless.

    Your "man" has his priorities all screwed up!
     
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    Yup.

    My son and his friends love MW3...but they are 13 and 14 yrs old...not adults.

    BINGO

    Definately.
     
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    Dump him, he's a nerd and you can do better.
     
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    I see "video games" in the title and i come in here thinking I can finally help with some advice and everyone have already said what I wanted to say. :(
     
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    I wanted to post right away after you started this topic. But all I could think of was to say find someone who has their priorities in order. But now everyone else seems to think what I do.

    Real human interaction should always trump the virtual world. The virtual world will be there when you have the time for it. There's never a guarantee you can get back a missed opportunity to share life with another person.

    For a game addict it may take quite a blow to knock him out of his fantasy world. Your leaving may be that blow. Unfortunately, that leaves you without him. Plus if it straightens him up and results in his being a thoughtful lover and friend to some other lucky girl, then good for them, but it double sucks for you.

    Sorry, that's all I've got.
     
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    its rough but you probably have to find someone more compatable with you. My girl and I love to play games, so theres never issues. Except who's turn it is, lol... As sad as it may sound, gaming can be really addicting. Keep that in mind, and addictions are very difficult to overcome.
     
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    Regardless of his age he is still a BOY needing to get a shot of reality on what it takes to live with someone. Either this changes or you change ...... your life. Don't use the ultimatum or the gun on the head methods, it has to come from himself or it won't work.
    You can always walk out onyour own without another partner.
    If you want to be with him it leaves the door open if / when he decides to grow up but don't wait forever, go on with YOUR life.
     
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    That's a little harsh to say the least.

    1. He's not a nerd just because he plays video games.
    2. She can't necessarily do better. He could be the most amazing guy in the world just have issues with being addicted to a game. Because yes, games can be as addicting as just about anything else and very hard to put down. To imply she can do better because he's a nerd is a douche comment. Just sayin'.

    I have personally been in this type of relationship, though it was because of WoW not MW3. It made me feel like shit and was the result of many fights. I choose to ignore it and neglect time with him until he realized what he was doing. The relationship lasted for a little over 2 years. Ended on the mutual grounds that he was too young to settle down etc etc etc.

    I'm now happily married to one hell of a geek who does everything from video games to computers to breaking and fixing electronics and I couldn't be happier. He knows how to juggle all of those on top of a family/personal life though.
     
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    Yep I know the feelin my wife would prefer WOW over my company, she was a WOW addict. Course I think i could have succeeded if i was a black guy from work, but that's another story lol.

    Course I liked my Internet Time too (gotta keep my Cinephile Cred up!) but she could always tear me away for whatever inane thing she needed, sadly it was never sex :( (would have been nice to feel sexually desired) just "get something six feet away from me cause i'm too lazy to get up" or "fetch something from the kitchen" 20 times a day.
     
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    I think she has a point. If your life revolves around a video game...you have major problems. An addictive personality is a warning for further problems. I'm a nerd in the scence I can fix most things from computers and cell phones to cars and trucks. But I'd much rather be jumping a CRF450F than doing it on a fucking TV. I'd much rather be ripping down a mountain in MY skis than my TV. I'd much rather be at the rink playing hockey than doing on a TV. Real men do....the rest just play. I play hard and treat my wife very well and she gets all the attention she wants. In almost 30 yrs together I've never turn down sex for anything.
     
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    YOu could always get army gear or tell him "I'm Iraq now you gotta invade me baby!"
     
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    I agree, some of the comments here are harsh. Video games can be highly addictive... it's not just about "priorities", but overall someone who's addicted to video games needs to want to help themselves.
     
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    I used to be one of those men who neglected their girlfriend while playing computer games (World of Warcraft).

    In my case the gaming was symptomatic of deeper issues. Me and my girlfriend weren't on the same page as far as life issues were concerned. I really wanted to go out and party with my friends, and wasn't ready for a committed relationship. I was also scared I would cheat if I went out in the evenings so I stayed at home with my gf. However, I couldn't bear watching TV so I played computer games instead.

    You could ask him why he's playing so much, and if there is anything you could do that would make him play less.