Committed Relationship - keeping it real

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by John W, Jul 13, 2014.

  1. John W

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    I've posted various things since I've joined about my relationship with my wife, best friend and mother of my children of 20 years. As any couple, we have had our highs and very lows over the years. We have recently discovered new things to keep it real and fresh, but I'm always looking for something else to WOW her in the bedroom (yes, she (Lizzie73) will end up reading this, so PM me if you have a Eureka moment). You can read previous threads if you want to know more, but I was wondering what other people do?

    What to you do in order to keep sex fresh and both of you wanting one another?
     
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  2. Doitagain

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    Unfortunately I can't help. I will pay attention to the thread. My SO and I have been sort of stale and my attempts to spice it up are met with a closed mind and negative and self conscious comments
     
  3. bettyisback

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    I can't help you either, my married sex life was not remotely satisfying ...... but at least it gave me time to learn how to masturbate :D
     
  4. Cappy_Dick

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    At least you found a silver lining...

    xx
     
  5. jt _couple2012

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    This is hilarious, I love it................................
     
  6. Joys

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    I'm not so sure if I will be misunderstood or not but here it goes: How about introducing her another lover
     
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  7. John W

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    We have talked about that. Really complicated, but has been discussed a lot lately.
     
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  8. Joys

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    and... what does she think about it?