Comments, Cheers, Enjoying Porn Together

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  1. Logger

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    I am wondering what I could ask my wife to say during those rare instances where she is willling to watch porn with me in the marital bedroom.

    Maybe, "Look at those tits jiggle! Isn't that Erotic? Doesn't that really get you off?"

    Maybe, "Isn't that great enthusiasm?"

    Maybe, "How does she bend around like that, I can only get halfway there."

    She really looks like she is building up some suction, she really looks like she is putting that guy at risk!"



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  2. lovn_my_bbw

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    good luck, if i say a word while watching porn together(the only time i get to watch it is with her) she shuts it off.
     
  3. igor

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    My wife would never watch porn. That's too bad in a way because a lot of what I have learned over the years, or ideas to try, was because of porn.
     
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    My husband and I usually make jokes about what is happening while watching it together...It lightens the mood to not take it all seriously.
     
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    Seriously those are what you're sticking with when watching porn?

    For one I like porn... you want to make it a part of your experience together... if you see her enjoying a certain touch or position... then start touching her..her arousel is going up... it's not so much what you say while watching porn it's about what you do... it's a good way of learn what turns each other on if you can vocalize it right... trust me she'll see you getting hard if he is licking her and she's enjoying it... she wants you hard... hello hard inside her...

    and if the sex is getting a little rough in the porn and she's relaxing and spreading her legs just a little more.. be more assertive... observation during porn watching will tell you so much about your lover... that they themselves might not be able to say...

    and I don't know about you but I can't watch porn and not have sex... in fact that's when I most want to try something new....

    Hope that helps... :)
     
  6. gphine

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    We've just started getting into this by watching our own home made porn and you're absolutely correct; I've learned so much more about what gets her off just observing her reaction to what's on the screen.
     
  7. VanGogh

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    Me: "Wow. If you could do that, I'd never leave the house."
    Her: "If I could do that, I'd never be at the house."

    OK, then.
     
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    I highly recommend some SOFT porn for the ladies. IF she normally enjoys a HOT R rated sex scene, if that gets her juices flowing, then she might be open for some more Romantic sensual porn. Try "PLAYGIRL" Dvd's. Me & my husband rent from Bluedoor.com . Love those ones, they have a ton.
     
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    32" HDTV on the wall of our bedroom and yes it's used for porn watching...GMA and porn. Wife and I get into it. Helps keep things fresh. We use that and toys, lingerie, etc to keep the marriage strong.
     
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    We watch it every so often, more as a silly treat. Our comments tend to be more humorous, laughing at the action. When we do decide to watch something it tends to be the "classic" porn of the 80's and 90's, where they actually attempted a storyline.

    But, nothing is better for us than watching the stuff we have made for ourselves, it far outshines anything else. Especially in a home theater. :)
     
  11. HardRocker

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    Aww shit, under your circumstances I hate to laugh at that, Van. But I guess if you can't laugh at life it only makes it worse.:eyes

    My wife and I used to watch it back in the videotape days. We usually found it funny. But as usual, Logger, you are over thinking it. Suggesting things for your wife to say? Did I get that part right? Kind of robs the natural spontaneity from the experience. You might as well write it down and let her look at the list so she'll know what to say.
     
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    I would love it if my wife did that but she thinks porn is degrading to women and all that. I would love to spice things up that way or any other way for that matter.
     
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    only bad porn is degrading to women
     
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    i have never complained about watching porn when a man is, uh,massaging me at the same time. meanwhile, soft porn does tend to turn me on more . . .