Cocksucking

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by FlirtyChick, Jun 10, 2008.

  1. FlirtyChick

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    Guys...what do you like, what do you not like? I have a technique, but would love to improve it. I love to give blow jobs, and only want to get better!!!!!
     
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    I'm sure opinions, likes/dislikes, etc., will vary greatly...but...slow is definitely good. (But you already knew that. :brow)
     
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    How about you give us a detailed description of what you do now :brow so that we can critique it of course.

    I find that a lot of girls tend to forget about my balls. They either ignore them completely or just hold them, gotta rub them and occasionally go lick them.

    I also like it when girls tease me right before. When she started going down I like when she kisses her way down my body from my neck to my stomach and then stopping and teasing me by just staying around it. :)

    After we orgasm our cocks get very very sensitive so if you put it back in your mouth for a little while after, it feels amazing. But go really really slow and don't use your tongue, it's so sensitive that your tongue feels like sandpaper. Ouch.
     
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    I enjoy a lot of licking, changing speed and suction, sucking the balls and if she's really a sport about it a nice facial to finish things off.
     
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    Well I would like to just have something anything done as my wife don't do bjs at all, she did when we first met but thats 15 years ago and its all gone now, the most I get is a wank and maybe a little nipple suck but hey the good outweighs the bad I still a happy man.
     
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    Not to wear this out but I think it's appropriate:

    :pics
     
  7. Barbwire

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    I'm not an expert cocksucker, but I've found these techniques to work well.

    1. Go down on him with a mouth full of chipped ice. Hubby loved it and remarked how the feel of the water running down his shaft, balls and ass crack really added to the experience.

    2. Lay on your back, head over the edge of the bed. This position is great because the man is free to work your goods as you take him down. If you use toys, now's the time to get them ALL out and put on a good show for him. This is also great for deep-throating, as the angle lets the cock just glide in and out. I use my hands on hubby's hips at first to control his thrusting, but once he's really close to orgasm, I just let him do his thing. He loves that part best of all, I think.


    3. Lick, kiss, suck and nip every square inch of his body but NOT his cock. Tease him with your hot breath upon his package, but DON'T lay a lip on him until he's ready to lose him mind, then gobble him down like a savage beast. Hubby has a difficult time staying in control and not shoving my head down on his cock, but he always maintains. I just love torturing him. :dgrin

    4. Have him sit on the edge of the bed, but laying down, so he can't see what you are doing. Get him rock hard and ready to explode with your mouth, then quietly slip a well-lubed or gloved finger in his ass just as he starts to go off. It's a bit difficult to pull this trick off without hubby knowing it's coming, but the result is fantastic, I assure you.

    5. Have him sit on the couch watching porn as you suck his cock. Tell him he's NOT allowed to look at you as your work your magic on him. As you suck him off, watch his eyes, if he dares to look at you, stop sucking. If you catch him again, slap him, if he insists on not doing as he's told. nip him. I did this to hubby once, and it led to some really fantastic sex afterwards, not to mention a few cute little bruises. :lol

    6. Have him sit on the edge of the tub and get him hard, then, shave his shaft and balls, rinse well, and finish by sucking off his clean shaven cock. There is an element of fear to this one, as it takes a lot for a guy to trust someone to shave their privates. Exciting stuff, really! :cool

    7. Wet down a washcloth with warm water, and wring. Wrap the washcloth around a vibe and use it on his balls, ass and shaft as you suck his cock. Mix it up by using cold water once in a while. I've never done this one, I admit; it's something that popped into my head just now and I think it would be pretty damned decent feeling to the man.

    8. Do "hit and run" cocksucking. Go up to him when he's just minding his own business, fall to your knees in front of him, open his fly, and whip the meat out. Suck it like you mean it, swallow the seed, and put it back. Don't say a word, just walk out of the room like nothing happened. I love doing this when hubby is watching sports or talking on the phone to his mother. :lol

    9. Good old-fashioned road head is great, but you already knew that.

    10. While he's sleeping, slip under the covers and latch onto his cock. This has always gotten rave reviews from my menfolk.

    Well, that's all I have for now. Let me think on it a bit, I'm sure I have more ideas. ;)
     
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    I love you CL :drool
     
  9. Barbwire

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    Thanks, hon. :lol
     
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    Maybe not in real life, but in story land I beg to differ.:dgrin
     
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    Sure sounds like you are to me! :blowjob :woohoo

    I'm already :slong with anticipation :phat
     
  12. LPjammin

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    The most...

    ...important thing, to me, is passion. If you LOVE sucking cock and it shows, man, that is the stuff right there.

    Fast, slow, deep throat, licking, actually sucking, light nibbling, nut massaging, stroking with your hand, fast and slow, looking up at me, slurping, so on and so on.

    Nothing sucks, pun intended, worse than a woman who is just doing it to get it over with and doesn't much enjoy it. Nothing is greater than to find after she's been giving you head for awhile that her pussy is molten lava.

    If you're giving head as part of love making and not specifically to get me off, you can do damn near anything.

    If you're giving the full 100% blow JOB, to completion, try this;

    Start slow, work up pace and speed and change techniques here and there, work it to the edge and BACK off, slow way down, move away from the head totally so I can recover some, back up, back down, however long you want me to be at your mercy. When you're ready to take it all the way, get me RIGHT there and then SLOW WAY DOWN AGAIN but don't leave the head, keep licking, light sucking, just slower and slower and slower. Let it happen. My dick will get as hard as it can get. Let me start a little pre cum, slow down some more. I'll damn near have a fucking heart attack and be crying for you to finish me. Fondle my balls. After a couple of thick globs blow all over the place; attack, just go to town and milk that thing and suck it and jerk it. It'll be like I'm getting electrocuted. I'll try to push you away, just hang in there a bit. Look at my eyes, see the joy in my face and let me see the pleasure you're getting do this. Then, when you think you've about killed me, slow again. This is the erotic part, where you just kinda suckle and nuzzle on my cock as I deflates and come back to earth.

    If he lives through this, get him to do the same to you after he has a beer or two and stops shaking.
     
  13. cook74

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    You beat me to it LP...

    All I was going to say is that the most important thing in giving head is that the woman enjoys / loves doing it. A guy will get off on that enthusiasm alone.

    (Almost alway. I just remembered one bad time from high school...:eek. I guess learning just a bit of technique can't hurt...)
     
  14. Barbwire

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    Well duh! If FC wasn't so into it, she wouldn't be here asking for pointers on how to do it better. ;)

     
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    And, I can point out (from experience :D) that FC already delivers mind-bending blowjobs. :bow I actually can't imagine how she could get any better at it. But...I'll still be watching this thread with great interest. :brow

    Something she's done to me that I really liked (and that I've done to her that she really liked) was to put a piece of strong peppermint candy into her mouth first. Talk about some unusual sensations! :woohoo

    BD
     
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    Guys, I really love to suck dick. I get wet thinking about it and even wetter doing it. I do different things all the time, but my main course of action is as follows....

    I usually leisurely kiss, lick, and suck my way down. All this without touching the dick, then i very slowly and firmly lick to get good lube going, then I use my hand while i lick the good old balls, and the crease in the leg beside the balls, and the balls again, then up the shaft, over the head, down the other side, to the balls again, and under them on the perenium, and so on. I like to go slow, then just plunge my mouth all the way down so my nose touches his belly, and carry on like that...then move my mouth away and go back down to those other sweet areas. Sometimes i gnaw and squeeze with my teeth tucked behind my lips. This gives firm pressure without the danger of biting. I like to rub it on my face, and sometimes will slap myself with it. Oh, and another trick I learned from BD doing it to me is to get my mouth as close as i can without touching, and huff hot, moist air all the way down his member, and do the same on the balls. (This is HOT to do to your ladies, too, and it is cool on any body part)I will keep going and going until he pulls me off. And I always, always, always swallow.

    Hope this is descriptive enough!
     
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    Ya know, my wife is friggin' hot. :bow Oooo, that little seductress. ;) I couldn't possibly cheat on this woman...I don't have enough semen left in my body on any given week to do so even if I wanted to. :D

    BD
     
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    Sounds like we could get along just fine in this department;)
     
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    I'm thinkin that FC and BD should be writing a book or making a video.:D
     
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    How do you not use your tongue? it's like in your month >_< hahahah this is my unexperiancest showing =0