[Ask a Girl] Clitoral Preference

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  1. knottyman

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    My girlfriend prefers direct stimulation of her clitoris over normal intercourse. She likes to cum with the stimulation of my tongue, my fingers, and the tip of my cock. Intercourse doesn't do that much for her.

    When I put my cock between her legs to enter her, she takes it in her hand and rubs the tip on her clit until she cums. Then she lets me enter her for me to cum.

    This really doesn't bother me, but I am interested in how common this is. It makes sense that direct stimulation like that might me better normal intercourse.

    What do you ladies think?

    Do you think that frequent mastubation may have led to her preference?

    Thanks

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    I can't normally get off (like most women) with just insertion sex. I need my clit rubbed or something done to it when I'm having sex, else it's not totally enjoyable.

    Your girl is nothing strange, she's like most women.
    Masturbation has nothing to do with it.
     
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    Thanks for taking the time to reply.

    I didn't really thing she was strange. It makes a lot of sense and I really enjoy it! I would guess that most women would prefer that to insertion sex (great term!)
     
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    I need the clit rubbed too.
     
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    Lol, I wouldn't say I prefer clitoral stimulation to insertion, I just need them both at the same time.

    There are the rare occasions where I'm doing it doggy style or bent over the bed that my husband is hitting my g-spot just right and can have me in a puddle without ever touching my clit. So I don't need it 100% of the time.
     
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    How do you do it during insertion sex? Do you stimulate your clit yourself?
     
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    Generally I do. Or he'll take a vibrator and hold it against my clit. A vibrating cock ring is sometimes used too.
     
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    I like the vibrating cock ring idea. That would feel good on me too!
     
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    My wife loves rubbing me over her clit, hell we do that sometimes and I never enter her. She has no problems reaching orgasm from strictly vaginal sex.

    But some women need direct stimulation, be glad she is comfortable enough to let you know what she needs
     
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    Not adding to this but giving an idea:
    How about you play with her clit while having intewrcourse.
    Feel free to stop sliding in while working her clit and try to time it for both to orgasm together, or her first. Try different positions for results and ease of doing it.
     
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    Good idea. Looking forward to trying it!
     
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    I find it too awkward if the guy is trying to play with my clit during intercourse, although I will let him do it for a tease. Usually I prefer to keep clit play separate from intercourse as I have stronger contractions if there's nothing holding me open.
     
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    some positions are better for clit stimulation. My wife prefers those rather than try to get a hand in there.