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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by bigballs, Dec 31, 2007.
Does a clitoral orgasm feel different than one from penetration?
If you are talking about g-spot vs. clitoral orgasm, I'd say the clit wins hands down. Much stronger and longer lasting.
Clitoral is the only way for my partner. ( And I have tried everything I could think of )
Good question bb, I've often wondered this too since clit and vaginal orgasms do appear different at least from my view as a guy. I've been told by women that clit is more electric / explosive and vaginal is more emotional or full body :shrug How much different does g-spot feel different then clit?
Clitoral lasts longer and is easier to acheive. G spot makes me scream out LOUD and shake all over. A combination is the best feeling in the world........
I specialise in combined clitoral and g-spot orgasms, and I get mixed responses from partners. Some say it is short and sharp and not as satisfying. Some say it is VERY powerful and involves the entire body (and a few have ejaculated). Some say it feels pretty much the same as clitoral but is more reliable. One delightful partner admitted she hardly ever came with any partner until I did clitoral and g-spot to her, and she came and ejaculated as well (and she was very taken with me after that). She had a BIG orgasm, I felt her contractions against my fingers for about a minute or more.
I much prefer clitoral orgasm.
Lasts longer and easier to achieve
Specialist, huh? Hmmmmmmmm......:bow
WELL?!? Are you going to share your technique? :brow The women of :sf would be eternally grateful, I'm sure
That sounds about right. My clitoral O's are more intense, but they're very superficial (unless I also have an anal plug in my bottom); my vaginal O's are like little earthquakes with an epicenter deep within.
Never had a g-spot O (or, I should say, I haven't had one yet ).
Firstly, g-spot pressure isn't to every woman's taste and some women don't like it at all. The g-spot varies in location, typically about about a crooked finger inwards on top if your partner is laying on her back. However, it can be further inwards or closer to the entrance of the vagina, and it can be (if you think of a clock face) anywhere between 10 and 2 (ie off-centre). Almost always it is at 12 o'clock (only one of my partners had it off-centre at about 10).
The more aroused your partner, the more enlarged the g-spot gets. So start with lots of hugs, kisses, caresses and love words before going down (which is what all good lovers do in any case). Your partner will be lubricated by then, and you can progress to oral and then gently slide a finger inside and locate the g-spot. From feedback, some men can't find the g-spots that I have, so I think it's a matter of practice. Once you've found one, it'll be easier to find on future partners. It's a small raised area with a cross-hatched feel about it.
I do oral my way, starting medium pressure on the hood of her clit and watching and reading my partners response. Some women like a firm pressure, most medium, some very light. Some women need you to really go to town on them, others like it gentle and repetitive. The g-spot bit itself is quite easy: just press (not too hard) and rock your finger to vary the pressure. No need to rub because it is very sensitive, just press (not too hard) and rock. G-spot and oral combined, very easy.
Voila, orgasm guaranteed (and maybe ejaculation or something equally outstanding). Maybe her orgasm wasn't so great, but nothing ventured nothing gained. Ask her how it felt, and ask her for her honesty. The feedback you get will tell you whether you should do it again, or not.
A G-spot O, for me, feels like the vaginal O times ten. I find it usually easy to achieve with a rabbit-type vibrator. I use the clit stimulator until I orgasm that way, then slip in the rotating penis while that O is fresh, or still ongoing. Using the beads on the head in a rocking, upward motion does the trick, and I lose all control for a few seconds. It is very quick and intense, and often leaves me wanting to do it immediately again, unlike a vaginal, which is awesome and complete! This may be TMI for ya, but I love having G's, and just wanted to share, because for me it is a blissful experience!
Hummm..You know how hard it is to lick the G-spot???? I alsmot cramped my tongue trying..
I agree the combination clit/g-spot that cbrmale & sadchick described is the fastest trigger for me to get her over the top. No ejaculation but still quite an explosion. I guess 2 sensations are better then 1
*takes diligent notes*
It sure sounds blissful I'm going to have to look into these rabbity things. I remember when Rose and CL were going on about their dolphin vibes (same principle).
Well by all means give it the good old college try! I don't have a dolphin vibe, but I do have a rabbit, and the Jenna Jameson Stroker....Yippeeeeee.............
Let us know how it works for ya!
clit, when I get eaten sometimes I get so much hornier than intercourse
and the orgasm is better
The combination of clit and G-spot orgasm is the best. Its hard to do. clit orgasm is easier but g-spot is more satisfying.