[Ask a Girl] Clit licked or sucked?

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    Hello, do women generally prefer a partner sucking their clit or licking their clit? I know both will be involved in a session but which do you kinda prefer? What are the differences for you?
     
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    Licking. Sucking too much makes it sore.
     
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    Nibbling... No,sucking... No,licking UGH ALL ARE GREAT AND I WANT IT
     
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    just lick+kiss my thighs because it teases my middle and makes it even more fun in the end:}
    thats why i like relaxation massage therapy on my legs so much!
     
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    Both have their place. Depends on what you want to happen.
     
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    I like it all, as the giver, just have to be mindful of her body.
     
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    when guys have their pen1s sucked does it feel like when our clitoris is kissed?
     
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    I don't have a clit but I think the head is very sensitive like the clit.
     
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    WARNING: Brief but boring quasi-medical explanation!
    All fetuses start - some say "female" I say "gender neutral" - and develop sex organs and define physical gender over the course of the pregnancy. The tissue that develops into the head of the penis is the same tissue as that which becomes the clitoris.

    So I imagine that the sensation is similar. Probably not the same, but similar.
     
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    both seem to be really popular for mbating.

    thanks thats incredible i love your information:}
     
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    Wife allways likes her clit sucked licked, Or rubed...It's fun to get her off, Sucking it.:)
     
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    All women are different and there are no rules that always work. This is why exploration should be so important.
     
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    My wife is a huge lick, then suck her til she gets off type. Suck the fuck out of it. I love doing it, so do not mind.
     
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    I like it to start with licking and get more intense with sucking. The way the boyfriend sucks it has a lot of licking in it.
     
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    Just like the poster shared above. There is the possibility of doing both. Even at the same exact time, perhaps. One example would be getting her worked up with your tongue first. Before taking the clit inside of your mouth. All of the way in between the lips. Licking your way all around the edges. While, still sucking it deep within. Almost as to fully envelope her. Yet again, all women are different and there is no one 'right way' which always works.
     
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    If your woman has a clitoris, it should work the same as any other clitoris. Fact: a smaller clitoris is more sensitive than a larger clitoris, but clitoral orgasm still occurs similarily.

    It's actually very similar to the way men orgasm. If you have a dick it generally needs constant stimulation until you cum (regardless of what that looks like, it's all pretty much the same idea), that's the same thing for a clitoris. If you think of a penis, you use your hand or a mouth to replicate the idea of thrusting into a vagina in order to cum.
    Well, the clitoris is exactly like a tiny penis and is stimulated by the same motion. It is in the shape of a tiny roundish/oval thing that throbs and swells when it is being stimulated like a penis.
    If it's very sensitive, even light touches will stimulate it. Licking is nice, BUT sucking is what will lead to the most powerful orgasm ever. Even slapping against the clitoris is good because it pushes pressure down onto it and gives the same feel of it being "jacked off". If you are not sucking on it, you have to stimulate it in a consistent rythym so that she can climax.
    You can take it between your fingers (if she's too sensitive wrap the labia around it) and jack it off like you would a tiny penis.
    Clitoral orgasm can actually take a long time to reach, some women can control it and make it last for hours or make themselves orgasm on command.
    If she is climaxing for REAL you should feel the clitoris throbbing and swelling up, and you will see very noticable contractions along her stomach and her legs and entire body will contract. Clitoral orgasm is really intense, there is no way any woman could fake the real thing. So if women aren't experiencing these things, they haven't reached climax and just think they have, which isn't surprising considering a large percentage of women haven't learned how to orgasm yet.

    Licking can only do so much, that's just what people think is needed from watching porn. And you don't ever want to follow moves you see in porn because porn is really bad sex.
     
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