[Ask a Girl] cleavage- look or not

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  1. lasarus2k

    lasarus2k New Member

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    I'm sure this was asked before but I'll ask anyway. :phat
    Everytime I go in to this corner store there a girl that shows a lot of cleavage. Me being properly raised I try to avoid looking. :cool
    So what i'm trying to say is what are you women thinking when you wear something like that. Do you want us to notice. Be cause I think it's cruel because I want to look but don't feel right doing so :lol
     
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    If I wear something low cut, I don't mind. I like to get a few looks, but don't be creepy about it.
     
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    I don't really mind people looking, after all I'm the one that put it for show.
     
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    I agree with you in this is ok to look that's the idea, but if a men stares at it with this horny look on his face like he sees you naked... I don't like that at all.
     
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    so your saying I should keep my tounge in my mouth :p
     
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    Or you could use that tounge
    With me...
     
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    and just what would you have me do with it :brow oh :uhh: you mean you want me to use it in a conversation
     
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    A quick glance and slight upward smile should be flattery for her enough to know you aren't a freakazoid...
    lol..
    freakazoid
     
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    Well anyway the girl now has a undershirt on that covers the cleavage. Don't know if someone said something to her about it (management). I think she only wears the shirt because they're required to wear a certain color anyway. And to think I thought it was to make me uncomfortable/happy. :)
     
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    I've always kinda thought about this myself...at least it clearer now
     
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    If a woman wears a low-cut top and a pair of tight jeans, than she's obviously attempting to draw attention to her "assets" and she should therefore not be insulted if that's what exactly what she gets. I don't really have a stare-inducing chest, so I think it would be kind of cool for some random man to say "nice rack" to me. :)
     
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    I don't know I think 'nice rack' sounds a bit tacky. I don't mind a guy looking at my cleavage or any other part of me that's on display providing he's either discrete or does it in a way that isn't kind of furtive and sleazey.

    There's nothing wrong with a guy giving you a bit of attention and complimenting you on how you're looking. :) He basically mean nice tits... but that bit is just implied.
     
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    Implied then: Nice tits then, and btw rack ain't bad either :brow
    I'm such a bad dude sometimes!
     
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    I certainly enjoy seeing a little cleavage that hints at what lies beneath. lol I don't know if I'd be forward enough to say "nice rack" but I would compliment her for looking nice... or if she seemed receptive to go a little further and say she had a nice figure or tell her that she wore her clothes well. Usually, a little subtlety can go a long way. :)
     
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    It'd be straight up unfair if you weren't allowed to even glance,but to be honest sometimes I feel like girls will assume I'm looking at their chest if I even glance at them and they're wearing a low cut top,when this is obviously not naturally the case.And girls that go to my college often wear these,and seem to all have extremely bouncy breasts,and motion obviously draws attention from the eyes,so I guess you have to keep your eyes on a level plane,straight ahead on campus!
    o_O
    No fun!Haha.
     
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    A friend of mine is so nervous about offending girls that he once, when a female friend of his was wearing a t-shirt with something written on it, asked her what it said on her t-shirt (he is too polite to look at her chest). She thought it was strange that he didn't just read it himself, and so he managed to create an awkward situation:D.

    I have no such qualms. I often compliment a girl showing a nice cleavage with a quick look and a smile. I don't think I ever offended anyone.
     
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    That's your cleavage in your avy right? :brow

    That's what sunglasses are for :D
     
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    Sometimes the best compliments come without a word spoken....