Choking

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  1. evman

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    I have noticed lately in some pornos that there are guys that seem to enjoy choking a woman during sex. By the looks on the ladies faces it doesn't seem as though they enjoy it. Personally I don't get it but that's just me. It must be a control thing for the guy. Are there any guys that enjoy doing this? If so could you explain the reason. Are there any woman who enjoy being choked? If so, why?
     
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    There's nothing sexy about choking a girl.
     
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    I have noticed that "choking"
    and also wonder why.
    I like to smack a Woman's ass and Kiss it for awhile
    then smack some more, But it leads to more sex as
    I do kiss where I smack and almost always it leads to good oral
    sex.

    Hiker
     
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    Interesting, I was watching a porno a week or so ago and the guy would frequently wrap his hand around the woman's neck, in the manner someone might associate with choking, but he did this when he kissed her, but he didn't appear to be applying pressure to her neck.

    That sight caught me in an instant as very arousing, :drool but I think more or less for the domination/submission display, as she didn't appear distressed and he didn't appear to be applying pressure to her neck or hurting her; but just holding her neck suggestively(?) while kissing her.

    It's odd... the innuendo was somehow arousing, yet if he really WAS choking her, I'd be revolted. :eyes

    Any other :sf ladies feel that way? :eek:
     
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    Its pouring into real life, or maybe its the other way around I don't know. But it is no way hot to me personally.
     
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    Yes it is a disturbing new trend in porn. I've seen a lot of choking, slapping, and demeaning behaviour in porn recently and I find it very disturbing. I don't see how this is erotic in any way.
     
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    no you got to respect women
     
  8. Puss_in_boots

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    Well some people are erotoasphixipiliacs or "gaspers"...

    1. gasper


    Someone who likes to be choked or strangled while having sexual relations.

    Before he tied me up to f*ck me, I reminded him that I'm a gasper.

    From the Urban Dictionary
     
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    It isnt something new , it is something that has been around a long time....films in the 80's used to have referances to it..


    But it aint my blend , not something i would even contemplate doing.

    Closest i have ever come to a female neck in any manor or tightly gripping is from my hands clenching the shoulders as i was was thursting deeper inside her...
     
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    Being choked can be enjoyable. Or just having someones hands around ones neck can add something to sex. And it doesnt matter if the women or man enjoys being choked they are still going to have the look on there face as if they dont like it.

    Now being choke during sex is not something that porn created but is making popular. For the most part most of the stuff you see in porn is done by a minority of people some whre before it got to porn. The thing is chances are the porn stars doing it propably dont like it but their are some people in reality that do or would.

    The other probelm is the way that it is done in porn is not the way you are suppose to do erotoasphixipiliacs, you are suppose to do it just before you reach orgasm and be choked near the point of death.

    I guess that being choked a little can be pleasing in some ways to if you like being a little afraid during sex, but even that is not done realistically in porn.

    That said unless you are the one that like to be dominated i would forget about having it done in your real sex life cause most people in general dont enjoy this type of thing.
     
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    Oh yeah and a number of people have died doing this I think that the singer from INXS is the most famous person to have died from doing this to him self during masturbation.
     
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    If some people enjoy being choked as close to death as possible just before they orgasms .....( thats if both members dont mind ) then im not going judge them for it, but i will say it doesnt float my boat in the least.

    Having my cock choked in a very tight grip just before i cum thats anither story
     
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    Mmmm, so I could choke you with my vagina or mouth and that would be perfectly acceptable, eh? :brow That's the only kind of choking I'm interested in, myself ;)
     
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    Oh my god, yes.... thats exactly what im meaning, and i would be loving either or both of those feelins Bluesy....:bow
     
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    I would find a mans hands around my throat arousing, i guess it would remind me how powerful he is, that i am under his control etc but actually choking me would not be ok.
     
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    Phew!
    Thank you! My thoughts exactly.
    With the other posts here, I was beginning to feel like a FREAK! :lol :p
     
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    No actually you would have to judge them cause if one of them accidentally dies in your state and you were picked to be the juror then you would have to decided if said person is innocent, or guilty of murder/man slaughter.


    I would hate having a man's hand around my throat during sex. cause that would suggest that the young woman i am playing with is married and there is about to be a throw down and i am at a disadvantage being nude and not having all of my blood directed to the right parts of my body.
     
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    I do. I would not want to be choked, but wouldn't mind having his hand around my neck. :)
     
  20. evman

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    Thanks for the replies. I find it rather disturbing myself. It's interesting to see other peoples take on it.