If you are currently cheating on your partner I will be interested to know: (1) Do you feel any guilt? (2) Is it a case of what isn't know won't cause any harm? (3) Do you have a plan to cope with things if your partner discovers it? If you are not currently cheating on your partner: (1) Could you be tempted if the right opportunity was presented to you? (2) If you had that opportunity presented and was 100% confident that it could be kept a secret, would you cheat?