These are just some tips that may be helpful in your quest to not cheat on your spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, or whatever variety your S.O. come in. Quite often, cheating doesn't just happen spur of the moment. I.e.- you usuallu know this person for an x amount of time. The idea of a "hook up" becomes evient to the both of you. Eventually, in a lot of cases, this is where the "it just sort of happened" phases in when in all actuality, it didn't JUST happen. Emotional relationships form, often, before sexual/physical ones do. Don't let this happen. AT least, don't let the amorous side of it happen. If it does, since emotions are quite uncontrollable at times, don't show it. There's no need to go out for drinks (asking for disaster) or what have you that will only incite the breading ground for a cheat. Next, if you're mad at your S.O., treat it like most gun shops treat someone wanting to buy a gun. Give it a week or two (days at least) to pass over or for the two (or more depending on the relationship) of you to patch things up. We make terribly rash decisions when upset. And when we're upset and inebriated (or under a plethora of other influences... stress, other drugs... feeling unwanted, lonely, etc---) that is a couldren filled with disaster. If you're gung ho on cheating despite what it will do to your relationship if your S.O. finds out, despite how you'll feel when they find out, despite the distrust that will occur from then on... Think about cheating with the person or people you wish to cheat with. Masturbate to the scenario. It will be fun, no doubt. It's exciting thinking about what could be. When you finish, think about your S.O. if you don't immediately feel guilty already. If you do not, and you're still dead set on doing it... Please.... PLEASE let your S.O. know. Break up with them, let them hound you and possibly knock some sense into your head. Something... ANYTHING! But don't leave them in the dark. There are too many diseases out there (even permeable through latex) and why hurt someone you obviously cared for? If you don't care for them any longer, "step-it'up" and "break it off". Feel free to add more. I've been tempted with the opportunity to cheat on my gf a handful of times. The thought actually sickens me. I wish I could be that guy though. Care free without a fuck to give,reference the picture link, but I am not.