As I said recently in another post I am a 40yr old married male. My wifes sex drive is no longer near as strong as mine so I'm usually left wanting. We work opposite shifts so I am usually left with plenty of "alone" time. I like taking time (almost everyday) to masturbate while chatting with people about sexual topics and looking at porn on the net. This can sometimes go on for 2 to 3 hours and a couple of the ladies I chat with are ones that I have met or chatted with on the phone so I know they are real. My question how any people here think that chatting sexually in a chatroom is the same as cheating or is it an alright way to satisfy yourself without actually having a physical affair with someone?