Caught in the act

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by nicpin, Nov 1, 2008.

  1. nicpin

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    I was taking a shower and i was masturbating my wife walked in the bathroom as i was about to cum, i could not stop you know what i mean.. anyway she was disgusted that i still kept on going. she thinks i am perverted
     
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    Ask her to masturbate for you!

    BD
     
  3. Dreama

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    Why was she disgusted? I think it would be hot if I caught hubby! I'd have to join in!
     
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    Well, that's a shame. Like Dreama, I would have joined in too. Why does she think it is disgusting or perverted?
     
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    Hmmm... Are you the first of the male sub-specie she's ever been...exposed to, as it were?

    :lol
     
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    She needs to come to terms with the fact that masturbation is a totally normal human behavior. Everyone does it and anyone who says they don't do it is lying. I've walked in on my boyfriend masturbating before and I didn't think he was disgusting or perverted at all. I simply apologized and told him to carry on.
     
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    You are not disgusting or perverted, you are normal. She needs a toy. That will loosen her up!
     
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    She's baiting for right moment to walk into the bathroom. You should call her a pervert. Then you guys are even.
     
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    I'd be pretty pissed off if my woman was mad at me. Although I don't want her catching me in the act, if she did, she better offer to help me finish or at least say something positive instead of calling me a pervert.
     
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    You should have aimed at her.
     
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    hahaha word!!!
     
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    Sounds like the two of you need to talk - and masturbation should be maybe 5th or 6th on the list of priorities. I imagine there is a rift in your shared intimacy, which I imagine can be attributed to a rift in your relationship in general. Many of us at :sf can empathize - as this tends to happen.... the two partners grow at different levels of sexuality (and being open about it).

    Perhaps you could use this awkward situation as a catapult to be open and frank with your wife about needs you have. Perhaps you will learn from her some needs that she has, that have not been met. Open up to her needs, and it may make it easier for her to open up to yours.

    This just scrapes the surface - but it's a start.
     
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    Cool avatar!
     
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    Ha! Not to steal the thread, but after two of them getting removed, I decided to be a smart ass. I won't vent about my feelings. Thanks!
     
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    I just love it! No need to be upset about following the rules, and being a smart ass is almost a requirement to survive around here! You are a true forum spirit! LOL
     
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    My wife would have been pissed too. She would think that it is dirty and perverted.
    And sure as hell it is not because it is going to waste down the drain.
     
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    I think it's kinda sad that some women think of masturbation as gross and filthy.
    I would have joined you!!
     
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    great post :D
     
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    Dude I almost got caught by my dad when I was in like 6th grade lol,
     
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    Nothing wrong with you masturbating. She is the one with the problem.
    I have walked in on my SO before and just asked if I could watch.